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2020.10.01 00:47 SomeDudesNotHappy My Poor Google Experience Thus Far

*The Bot on Google's Subreddit removed this post... I can't Imagine Why*

It started in 2016, surprisingly not with Harambe, though a worthwhile mention...

Though first, some background on me. I've been immersed in Technology since I was around 16. I have an Associates in Network Engineering and a Bachelors in Cyber Security and I currently work in a Data Center. I don't claim to always be right, and I will and I'm well aware of how technology, business, and Customer Service works as I've worked in Customer service and the policies in place mirrored that of the rest of the Industry.
So, I bought the Pixel XL at full price when it was released in 2016, with the Additional "Customer Protection Plan". It was shipped to my house but was stolen off the porch after it arrived when myself and my other 2 roommates (at that Time, I've since moved) were all at work during the day, and it was not too discrete that it was the new Google Pixel XL in the Box, and there was No Signature required, nor was one able to be requested at the time of purchase. My phone and my Roommates phone were both stolen because we ordered them at the same time since we were actually excited about Project Fi and a Google Cell Service. So we ordered them at the same time and got there the same day. Google acknowledged that this happened a lot...
So, they replaced the phone and overnighted it and Did NOT need the $749 hold, or Deductible, They assured me this wouldn't be counted toward my replacement plan since Google admitted Error on the lack of Signature Required on Phones that you had to pay full price for... like $749 up front. At that time, it was affordable to me and I was able to part with that lump sum since I was able to save up and switch to a new Service. For a Time, it was good.
After about a year, I noticed my Pixel XL was acting weird. call quality was bad and dropping, and the mic was not working right. It was revealed that Google had released the Pixel phones with a known Defect. They were replacing the phones at no cost to people, they did it for both my roommates, but not for me, they for some reason had to take the Deductible of $100 to replace the phone, plus hold the full amount of the phone's value at the time of purchase (of $749 until they receive the old phone back) in order to get the replacement either overnight or in 2 days, thus giving me the ability to safely transfer the data from the old phone to the new one via USB cable. Otherwise, I'd have to rely on backing up the old phone, then downloading it to the new one. Plus having to part with another Large sum of Money for a while, that I didn't have to begin with at that point. (TLDR, life happened and costed a lot of money in a year. but the plan pricing was low, so it was a tad understandable.
To be Clear, there are 3 ways of transferring data and settings from the old phone to a new one, the best way involves having both phones present. the other two can be done without it, however must rely on the most current backup and WiFi connection. so if you have no WiFi, your basically screwed.
Though I was informed the first replacement wouldn't count against me, when I called into support, they held it against me with Every denial of ever stating they wouldn't since Policy said they have to. I referenced the articles and admission from Google, but it was pretty much neither Confirmed nor Denied, just cited policy and a broken word. I had to argue and Beg to, at the very least, get the phone in-hand so I can reliably transfer everything and Not have to fork over $749 because Life happened and I had to spend it on things like bills, Car Repair, and paying back loans... you know, human stuff... Plus I'd have to rely on them examining the phone (I'll tell you why that's laughable later) before the funds would be released.
I paid the Deductible, got the phone, transferred everything, and sent the old one back ASAP. Though a phrase of note from them to me, "We don't normally provide this level of service if you cannot provide the full phones value for the duration of the exchange Per policy, and will Not do this for you again"...
Fast Forward to November of 2019... I still had the same Pixel XL that was replaced and I stupidly bought another phone, Pixel XL 2, but that got stolen after a while, and their policy is "If you loose it, it's Gone", so I ate the $800 cost and moved on since I'll admit that was my error. I then proceeded to drop my phone and break its screen. these things happen, but I was paying the Customer Protection Plan, so I can at least get it replaced and $100 was affordable to me.
However, after contacting Google Fi support, they informed me that I have to provide the full $749 in order to receive the Advanced Replacement (getting the phone in 2 days instead of 2 weeks and being able to safely and reliably transfer my profile and settings), It was the end of the month, Rent, Bills, and Payments were all due, and that would have left me with a few hundred dollars as it was... I could part with $100 if needed, but $749?? after 3 years, The Pixel XL was $99 on Amazon, and no where near $749 anywhere in any marketplace. Google support acknowledged this, but said "Please Respect Our Limitations" as there was absolutely nothing anyone could do, nothing at all. There was plenty of time to ship out a new Phone to me as that's what they said they could do (with the $749).
Otherwise, I don't qualify for their Top Tier Service within the Customer Protection Plan they offer. So I had to wait for the New phone to arrive a Week after my phone arrived at their facility.
-Side Note- I worked in customer service, and for people who are rude, we would purposely take the longest we could to make that person suffer. the difference is, I worked with AR Drones, Google deprived me of a means of communication for as long as they could. which added up to 2 weeks.
So with that being said, it was Thanksgiving, but that was Never mentioned, nor any delays mentioned, It was expressly said that they could get me a new phone in 2 days, if I gave them $749 to hold until they "Inspect" the phone to make sure it's within their policy to replace, otherwise THEY KEEP IT ALL.
In November of 2019, the phone was worth under $150 at most, and at it's least, $99. and Google's Trade-in for it was $32... Where TF do they get the idea of the phone being worth $749... is it because Policy said so? or is it because they wanted revenge against me... My old roommates showed me proof that they didn't have to go through what I went through what I went through when they replaced their phones, and they replaced them more than I did... so it was seemingly just against me... I will admit I was Rude most of it, though that's because I was expressly denied anything resembling service after a few sentences from the chat on the initial contact of support.
So from then on, I was extremely rude... and they did nothing but prove me right about them. I would have preferred to be proven wrong, but that was being too hopeful. Instead of anyone actually trying to assist, they replied with broken sentence emails that didn't make sense, and someone named "Ace" that apparently misunderstood something I said and would have gladly looked into a potential $200 charge to refund, but nothing to do with me being without a phone or reliable means of communication.
And By The Way, They Misrepresented themselves by using an Alias "Ace"... and have the Audacity to suspend people's accounts over the very same Concept...
I was 2 weeks without the ability to Call anyone for any reason, outside of Wifi, and even that was difficult seeing as though my computer wasn't working right and I had a 6 year old tablet that barely worked, plus WiFi that was shaky as it was with a bad router. I had also just moved to a new city that I was unfamiliar with, so I got lost a lot. I was late getting to my relatives since I didn't know the streets very well and I had to use maps Offline, when I drive, I like to pay attention to the road and listen for directions, not have to constantly look somewhere else to make sure I don't end up 2 hours late, as it takes 2 hours to get there already... I explained all this to Deaf ears on their end... they basically LOL'd at me...
Google performed a Wealth-Check and determined I was too poor to be trusted, even though I've shown far more trustworthiness then Google, seeing as though I don't sell defective products, cheap-out on material so people spend more money in the long run, lie to people about what data and how much they collect, and their monopolistic Tendency to act like "Who else is there?". I held to my word and sent the old phone back as soon as I had everything transferred, unlike them, who sold it broke and "Could not recall" that they said it didn't count that against people, or made ZERO note like they said they would do...
Here's what they stood by,
- Their Limitations to provide Quality Products and service,
- Their Capacity to Give Zero F***s about someone's economic situation when they say how much "They Care"...
- Their Capacity to lie to people and garner revenge against them
- Their lack of anything resembling Human nature, just machine tendencies and the need for more money
- Their lack of actual knowledge of Depreciation and of goods as they thought their phone was still worth $749 3 years later...
They intentionally allowed me to be deprived of reliable means of Communication in order to protect their 3 year old product not worth a quarter of what I paid...
The cost of everything,
The Pixel XL - $278 for Google to have manufactured... I paid $749...
they replaced it once, so $556 in the first year of ownership of a Google phone... and the replacement was their lack of foresight... the second one was an Admitted defective Product... the third one was the only one that I had personally been responsible for breaking. and they acted like the previous cases were my fault... for their lack of foresight and Quality Assurance/Control...
In the models since, I've read they've decided to not add as much of a protective layer on the screens of the phones during manufacturing, and just sell screen protectors along side it... dirty way to push for more sales...
So, what's their policy on all this to begin with?
That they would replace the phone with one that is "Refurbished", where as their email to me said it was "Reworked" and Amazon said theirs was "Renewed"... that's fine to receive a Used phone, since that's what Refurbished means... when I finally got the replacement, their email said someone would "Look it Over"... the OS was 2 years behind, and the batter was completely dead... I was lucky there wasn't a battery issue... seeing as though they'd guarantee me the same poor service and treatment.
They ensured they get the most amount of money for the least amount of quality and work involved. They got Lazy and too Automated... No system cannot be overruled by someone, they just refused to. When someone says "I'll talk to my manager" they don't actually do it, they put you on hold and say "This is what my manager said"... seeing as though you can't see them do it...
My car broke down, and I had to walk 5 miles in November Rain because I couldn't call anyone... I got sick because of that. All I had was my sweatshirt because my coat got ripped up... I was freezing... THANKS GOOGLE, FOR SHOWING "YOU CARE"...
And now we come to another fun bit with Google... They Suspended my main Google account that has my Gmail, MY GOOGLE FI ACCOUNT, my Google Drive, and literally everything else I stupidly tied to Google... I know, after all that, why would i continue to trust them? because switching from them is difficult. and they know that seeing as though the US Government and the Chinese Government are calling them out for being a Monopoly... which is starting to look more and more evident that their concern is Money, not Product or Quality of Service.
They suspended my account and did not tell me why, they provided a link to "What could be the issue or reason for Suspension" and upon looking at that page, "Terrorist" was on that list along with many other Vague and General things I could have been suspended for. They had the Audacity to include "Please tell why we should Consider Unblocking your account?" when hey refused to provide a reason in the first place, just told me it'll be 2 or more days before I get a reply, so in the mean time... I'm without my mail Gmail account, I cannot access Google Fi (SO I HAVE NO CELL SERVICE, AGAIN), I cannot get ahold of anyone through any means other than waiting days for a "Consideration"...
It's an alias email account. I have made no effort to misrepresent myself because it's actually smarter to NEVER USE PERSONAL INFO ONLINE... If they wanted to, which they can seeing as though it's their product, trace everything to me, a person, they can ask for verification info, or even my ID, but they just suspended it and will do nothing for days, and will most likely decide to wipe the account of over 15 years of personal Data from an email address I had when Gmail was Invite Only, just because They literally tell you "They can, for WHATEVER REASON THEO CHOOSE"... They've told me before with issues like this, "we don't have to tell you what specifically, just that it is... so they make me beg and plead with them...
I have a Gmail that carries my name, and every purchase made under either email accounts, can be traced to the same person, ME... they have no justifiable excuse for their actions beyond Greed and the willful disregard for the world they helped create...
You can argue that" A company can make whatever policies they like", however my counter is this, "when a company preaches and Advertises how understanding they are, how awesome they are, and how much they care about people, it'd be nice to be actually see and experience it, instead of getting the Cold hard reality of "Please respect our limitations", and "Sorry, you don't have enough money for us to hold in order to be trusted to get an Advanced Phone"
I'd ask Google What the Actual F**k, but it became clear when the two founders stepped down and a "New Era" was upon Google... which is a clever way to negate any responsibility for the previous Money driven policies, deceptive Marketing, and Poor Quality products... along with the inability to provide Customer service to those who are unable to Purchase the Phone Twice Over...
- Google is worth 300 Billion,
- Alphabet (Parent Company) is worth 892 Billion....
They put me through hell over a $99 phone... they allowed for someone to be without communication for 2 weeks when there was another option to Advance the phone... seeing as though I have further proof that one of my old roommates received a fourth replacement with No need to give Google the "Security Hold", which the 1 Trillion dollar conglomerate will argue is a good thing… somehow... on a Newer Pixel Phone... So either they're targeting me specifically for poor treatment, which is very possible seeing as though I know the nature of Customer Support... Or they're jus that bad of a company...
I regret I ever looked up to them or got Inspired by them. I can't use their Search engine anymore because it's too Bias... I don't care about politics, until a company like Google starts to adjust things in favor of one side. I'm not fond of Democrats or Republican's, but where I think we ALL Agree, is that Google Alphabet needs to be broken up, and Google along with it.
Google has now decided to Suspend my account and referred me to a list where the only thing they can push is "Misrepresentation of Something or other"... which is bogus because having an Alias Email is what keeps people's Identities safe... rather than listening to Google and letting Everyone know who you are at all times so you can get hacked. Google won't, but they'll make sure your exposed, or else they'll suspend your account... because I don't align with any others seeing as though Google would have to admit to be Hacked, or would basically be accusing me of something with no possibility of appeal, in which I could try and go to court, but where Corporate America is concerned, they'll ensure that I can't afford it or deny me a speedy trial. along with Delete ALL OF MY DATA...
Downloading it does nothing but keep a record, I can't upload my settings or access anything else under that account...
As far as I'm concerned, they grouped me with Terrorists seeing as though they REFUSE to explain why my account was suspended in the first place and left it at
"Violated Policy, Tell us why we should Give a S**t and we'll actually review or look at something in a few days while your Cell Service is cut off with No possibility of talking to anyone, and because of Covid, Google had ZERO Concept of staffing and even had to reduce staff, even though we have 1 Trillion dollars, we cannot be expected to continue to provide Sub-Par support. Please Respect our Limitations and if you speak out, we'll suspend your account for an additional No Reason and make up whatever we want! Have a Nice day and We have better lawyers than you!!!"
So at this point, Anything Google says about "We Care About the Customer" or "We Provide Quality Service", or "The Customer is our Main Priority", just remember that they sold me a defective product, made me pay for it, then turned around and blamed me for all the times I had to get assistance, when 2 out 3 issues were GOOGLE's FAULT... I explained by Economic situation and they basically laughed at me...
When they say how much they help those who need it, or whatever Good thing they claim they do, recall that 98% of their Income is Ad Revenue... they are a Search engine that Serves Ads and the occasional useful thing... they'll lure you to use their services, then pull it all out from under you as their Leisure...
I'm up to date on all my billing and payments to them... and yet they treat me like I'm a Terrorist, or criminal, or someone who doesn't matter to them in the Grand Scheme of their Money making, Lying to the public Business model...
I can go on, but really, what's going to happen?
They'll ask for a Case number, then privately reiterate their Policy and how I'm too Poor to be trusted, when I've never lied to them... I even tell them My real name when they call me by my Alias... I'm FAR MORE HONEST TO THEM then they are with anything or anyone else... or they'll just attempt to convince me what they did was for My Benefit somehow...
Google was Wonderous when I was younger, but after Growing up, I see they're no different than the other Greedy Corporations out there, and they just Advertise and market themselves as better... They don't use their own Towers and most of the Hardware in the their Phones, isn't made, nor designed, nor manufactured by Google... It's all a Lie for money and the ability hold Power and Control over people's lives... otherwise, they have no realistic Idea what they made, nor the negative impact to those not Paid Millions a year... I'm paycheck to paycheck, riddled with debt because of other debt and a bad Credit score for reasons of me being too trusting...
I never demanded anything for free, I never demanded anything more than getting the replacement before I send the Broken one back... I never wanted anything for free. All I wanted was to not be without a means of communication for 2 weeks. and that's exactly what Google knew I didn't want, but made happen anyway...
They engaged in Malicious activity to deprive me of what they see as a Luxury to be able to phone Emergency services seeing as though I had no way to communicate. I was extremely lucky Covid didn't hit the US until at least January or February, otherwise I my immune system would have been compromised and I could have got Covid and Die from it... Google doesn't care, In fact, I'm pretty sure they were hoping for something like that. After all, what reason could there possibly be to guarantee 2 day shipping with a $749 security hold on a device not worth $100?
They Removed "Don't be Evil" as their motto and preceded it with a whole bunch of Loop-holed Nonsense...
They are free to be Evil now and have shown that to me... Thanks Google!
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2020.09.30 14:30 fgs78ejlfs The child me, teenager me and current young adult me

Child:
I am confused. Why is mommy mad again and did beat me again? Next time I should finish my food and be a good kid. Still the rule of when my mom beat me is not very clear. Non-perfect grade, telling her I are sleepy, tired. Telling her I am hungry or I am full. Or if I think my cloth is itching. Or I prefer certain color. Better not to ask her. She does not like questions. I have been struggling to see the blackboard, but I better just squint my eye since if I tell her I might get beaten up again. I also don’t make any sound when my tummy hurt or I feel sick. It is just too risky to do that. She is nice sometimes though, she cooked me food. She also tell me mommy is always kind to their kid, it is human instinct to protect her child. When she beats and yells is for my own good. She also tells me everyone else might want to hurt me. Even including daddy. She never will. She is mommy. Mommy is the best.
I must be a really bad kid, if I cannot even make my mommy happy. Mom cannot be wrong. She is right when she told me I am a terrible student, terrible at Chinese (first language where I lived), terrible at English, maybe not so terrible at math for now but that might change. I am also disobedient, lazy, foolish, uncivilized, oversensitive, neurotic. She also said she was ashamed of being my mom.
When we hang out with other kids and mothers, she is always so friendly with them. She tell them their kids are better than her own kids. I must be so useless. I am such a disappointment. All the other kids are better than me. However, she does not beat me when those aunties are around. She seems to be a different person. I am scared if those aunties leave.
I envy those adult. They made it through adulthood. I am not sure I can make it, since everyday is so unbearable. 1 days feels so long. 10 years are just so so long it feels impossible.
My daddy is very nice to be when he is around. But he is usually doing his own thing. However when my mother beat me he just tell me western countries mom do not do that. I guest western countries is a nice place. I better study english really hard then.
Mommy also beat daddy sometimes and tell him he is a looser, and other husbands make more money. When she hangs out with other women she also compliments their husband over my daddy.
Teenager:
I am ugly. My mother is very specific about that. I look like a bear from the back. I have no neck. My face is square. I am too tanned (looked down upon where I came from. I know that is so fucked up). I look cheap, and no rich man will want me. I feel like my nerve is always tight. As long as my mom is around an insult can be casted any time. I must be too oversensitive then. Those are just words, I am too weak and that is why word hurts. I am afraid of shopping with my mom, because I will be reminded of how ugly I am all the time.
I am also a social outcast. My mom is also very specific about telling me that. I have so few friends are those friends are also not cool and that is why they are friends with me. All the good kids are not friends with me.
I have terrible moral because I am not as affection and obedient to my mother. I am a bad woman. no man will marry me. Disobeying mother is the biggest sin a person will have. She says I will get my retribution for not treating her better.
I am in top school and top classes because of my awards in math and physics. However still no man will marry me. A girl being smart is not a merit. However being good at math opened the door for me to pursue a career in a western country. I also need to study engligh hard thought. So I must study english like my life depend on it.
I like having my bedroom door shut. Still she can come in anytime. But the door still gives me some protection.
There is no place for me here. I am ugly so I cannot find a rich man. I am also a social outcast. I am just a bad person from a moral standpoint. So western countries is my only shot left. That is where scientists and engineers build stuff. I am good at math. I might fail there too, but I have nothing to lose. I cannot tell others though. People look down upon turncoats.
I love English songs and TV series. They give me a different perspective. When people are watching those spring festival propoganda celebration show I stay in my room to listen to green day. (❤️❤️Billy Joe Armstrong, thanks for the company)
I pretty much live in my own world and with this mission of studying hard and move to the west. And I care nothing else. This city this town in some sense do not exist to me. I loath myself. But I am confident that I am pursuing a right goal. I also promise myself I will not give birth to any child in China. Growing up in China is way to painful, I can attest.
Father is even less around. They live in the same aparment but different room. They do not talk to each other. He just tell me to hang in there, study hard and make a good life for myself. He tell me please do not become my mother. He tell me maybe the west is a better fit for me. I should go for it.
Adult:
I live in America now. The culture of America tells me people have second chance. I have to give it a shot. Just because I am a depressed enraged anxious self-loathing mess, does not mean I always has to be this way.
I find mental health professionals, books, youtubers, online communities to heal my trauma. I sometimes self loath but I just give myself compliment. I sometimes have a hard time regulate emotions, so I self sooth. It is difficult to just function sometimes. But I am managing.
I learned American history, politics, world history, and cultures around the world.
I studies hard and am working hard for a good career. I don’t have a parent with successfully career. So I find mentor myself.
I worked hard on dating before and now on managing my marriage. I did not have an example of what I wife should be. But I can learn from experts.
I promise my future Child I will never beat them or insult them or invalidate their feeling. I will learn from experts in terms of parenting. Again, I have no example to follow.
From the outside I even look quite successful. To my mother I went from the scapegoat to the golden child. I really thought she is different because she is nice to me now. But she is not. She want something from me. I am still ugly but I have money. She asked me to buy designer handbags for her and show off the picture on her social media. She shows off my husband’s picture too since he is handsome. I am her status symbol. She still pretends she never abused me. She wants to claim victory on my current success.
When my mother tried to gilt trip me into letting her live with me and my husband and our future kids. I said NO.
And I decide to never buy her any luxuries. It’s the shared money of me and my husband. She has no say.
And I am not wrong for setting boundaries with my mother. She is not automatically entitled to anything from me just because she gave birth. She has to earn it but she did not.
If I see my neighbor abused a child like my mother did, I will report them.
If I see my spouse abused a child like my mother did, I will divorce them and fight for custody.
If I am in a jury I will vote to take away such person's custody.
I do not have to forgive my mother unless she really earns it. But she probably won’t. That is ok.
Who I should forgive is myself. I did not caused myself to be beaten up. I did not caused myself to be called all those nasty words. I did not caused myself to be depressed, enraged, anxious and self loathing.
Who I should applaud is myself. I survive that. I did not think I can live through all those. But here I am still living and breathing. And I made the decisions to get better. I will learn self compassion. I will learn self esteem. I am in charge now.
She took my life. I am taking my life back.
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2020.09.30 10:35 throwra_alne How can I (M19) support my Black partner (M18) through a racially tense period in America?

This is not something I know how to ask well, since I know about the delicacy that comes from white people asking POC, and especially Black people, to hold our hands through racism that has never been about us- but I would like to ask for advice on a much more personal and deeper level that I’ve not been able to find any concrete articles or writings about.
It’s also a serious topic about racism, so please be mindful.
I (M19) am white, and my boyfriend (M18) (we’re both gay, lol) is Black. We're both American. We've been "dating" unofficially for about a year, but made it somewhat formal about 6 months ago, typical "friends to lovers" trope ensues.
More recently though, he has expressed to me very personal feelings about feeling a debilitating fear for himself and his loved ones, especially with the election and racial tensions, and wishing he hadn’t been born the way he is. It brings me to tears thinking about his and his family’s safety and wellbeing, and especially the emotional boulder that comes alongside it all. It’s not like anything I’ve ever experienced myself, and it does nothing to lie and say I understand the gravity of his fear and grief. Considering both of us are guys, and that I’m Jewish, I know a bit about privilege in America, but none of that changes that I have never (and will never) experience the same exact grief and fear he does.
I want to make sure he knows that I’m there for him in any way I can be, while also not playing into a ‘white savior’ narrative of myself. I just want to help lessen his pain. I think I’ve been as conscious as I can be when it comes to awareness of how lucky the cards I’ve been dealt truly are, and I want to use that to give him some sort of safety net, without being obnoxious about it. It’s finding that balance that I’ve had trouble with, since my worst fear is causing him to feel even more secluded and misunderstood, either by being too distant or too apparent. I think the part that’s lacking in online resources is for romantic relationships, since I’ve read plenty on listening to friends and community members about racism, far before we started dating, but none of it extends to the deepness that comes from a relationship. In fact, there’s not many resources about interracial dating in general, other than how to tell your white partner that racism still exists, but I’m fairly sure I’m… pretty far past that step. I don’t really feel any sort of that “divide” that most articles talk about, but I think that has a lot to do with my upbringing and just being a younger person very exposed to cultural differences.
There’s also my own anxiety about his safety. We live a few hours from each other currently as students in different colleges, and I’m not constantly able to be there physically. I love him so much, and I sometimes fret about the idea of something bad happening and being unable to help. I’ve never brought it up, since I see it as plainly inappropriate to turn a conversation about racism into something that affects me, but I’m genuinely not sure how to cope sometimes. I think the worst of it is when I am used against him, such as micro-aggressions where he is painted to be overly hostile and aggressive and myself as a gentle pacifist in comparison. For context, I’m leagues easier to anger than he is, especially in a situation with covert racism against the person I care most about. I’m a worrier, so situations like that shake me more than it shakes him, especially since he’s expressed that he’s used to those situations. Clearly, I’m not, since it takes me a long time to come down from the anger that comes from watching my best friend and partner go through some of this bullshit. Other than checking in on him and calling out what I see in the moment, there’s not much I know I can do, which does cause me a lot of anxiety.
I also want to be very explicit- none of this has ever made me want to break it off with him. We have been best friends for so long, and every day I feel so incredibly lucky like this, and this is the last thing from a dealbreaker. I admit sometimes I feel incapable of being the best boyfriend I can be in this regard and he deserves better, since I worry that I wouldn’t be enough when it comes to helping him cope in these scenarios, but I really think that’s a thought born from insecurity.
TLDR; what would you wish from a white partner in this situation? Or, if there’s anyone who has had/is in a relationship with a person of color as a white person who has more experience navigating this, do you have anything that you’ve used?
Also, please don’t feel the need to give sympathy or coddling, I really don’t feel like I need a medal for caring about my partner’s safety as a human being. I just need raw thoughts and advice for how to manage so both him and myself stay sane when the rest of the world is anything but. Thank you so much and take care.
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2020.09.28 18:34 bankbonusphil Bank account bonuses expiring at the end of this month (September / Q3)

As usual here are the bank bonuses expiring this month / quarter. Let me know if we missed anything.
Got these from https://everybankbonus.com
Personal
[OR] OnPoint Community CU West Salem Branch Checking ($300) - Request a coupon code using the offer link. Bring the coupon into the West Salem branch and open a checking account with $50 minimum opening deposit. Set up a $100 direct deposit within the first 2 months to get a $300 bonus. Exp Sept. 29, 2020 https://www.onpointcu.com/west-salem-branch-grand-opening/
[CA] 1st United Credit Union Rewards Checking ($100) - Open a Rewards Checking account using the promo code CAKE! and use your debit card to make a purchase 15 times within sixty days of account opening to receive a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.1stunitedcu.org/cake
[PA] American Heritage Credit Union Free Checking ($200) - Quakertown Special: Set up a $500 monthly direct deposit and complete 25 debit card purchases within the following first 3 months to get a $200 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://americanheritagecu.org/revolution/free-checking
[AL, AZ, CA, CO, FL, GA, IL, KS, KY, MO, NV, NJ, NY, TX, VA, WA] Armed Forces Bank Access Checking ($100) - Open an Access Checking account with $25 and complete 12 debit card purchases and complete a direct deposit before 10/31/2020 to earn a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.afbank.com/personal/accounts/checking/open-account-receive-100
Bank of America Savings *TARGETED* ($250) - Request enrollment in the offer from a Bank of America associate or by clicking the enrollment link in a direct communication. Open a savings account, within 30 days of opening deposit $20,000 or more, and maintain that balance for 90 days after the qualifying deposit period to earn a $250 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://promo.bankofamerica.com/ffq320olecash/
[AZ, FL, IL, IN, KS, MN, MO, WI] BMO Harris Platinum Money Market ($100/$200/$300) - Open a Platinum Money Market account with an opening deposit of at least $5,000. Deposit enough money to reach a $10,000/$25,000/$50,000 balance or more within the first 30 days. Beginning on the 31st day after opening your account, maintain this balance for 90 days to receive the bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.bmoharris.com/main/personal/summer-checking/?COID=BMOP-027820-SEM650C
[AZ, FL, IL, IN, KS, MN, MO, WI] BMO Harris Premier™ Checking ($200/$350) - Have a total of at least $4,000/$7,500 in qualifying direct deposits within the first 90 days Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.bmoharris.com/main/personal/summer-checking/?COID=BMOP-027820-SEM650C
[KY, OH] Cinfed Credit Union Checking ($100) - Become a member of the credit union and open a checking account using promo code GIVE5 with an initial deposit of at least $100 to receive a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.cinfed.com/page/wlwt-days-of-giving
[IA] Collins Community CU Advantage Checking ($100) - Open a checking account with $50. Set up direct deposit within 60 days to receive a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.collinscu.org/promotions/open-a-new-advantage-checking-account-and-get-a-100-bonus
[MD] Educational Systems FCU Checking New Employee Package ($300) - Set up a $700 monthly direct deposit and enroll in estatements to get a $300 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.esfcu.org/300BonusDividend
[AZ, CA, CO] eFirstBank Bloom Package ($300) - Open a new Bloom Package (includes Bloom Checking, Bloom Savings, Online Banking, eStatements, FirstBank Visa Debit Card). Enroll in online banking. Have at least one direct deposit of $500 or more for 3 consecutive months to earn a $300 bonus. The first required direct deposit ($500 minimum) must be made within 60 days of the open date. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.efirstbank.com/_jensen/pages/suns1910/suns.htm
[FL, GA, IL, IN, KY, MI, NC, OH, TN, WV] Fifth Third Bank Checking ($50) - Open a checking account after requesting your bonus promo code using the offer link below. Within 60 days, complete direct deposits totaling $2,000 or more for a $50 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.53.com/content/fifth-third/en/mkg/checking-offer.html
[NM] First National 1870 Checking ($200) - Complete $500 in ACH credits or debits and complete 20 debit card purchases within the first month to get a $200 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.firstnational1870.com/Welcome200
[AL, FL, LA, MS, TX] Hancock Whitney Bank Money Market ($100) - Enter your contact information to receive a unique promo code: Set up a monthly $250 direct deposit within the first 3 months to get a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.hancockwhitney.com/mymma100-20
[AL, FL, LA, MS, TX] Hancock Whitney Bank Priority Checking ($300) - Use the link to get unique promo code and set up $250 monthly direct deposit to get a $300 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.hancockwhitney.com/mychecking300pc-20
[LA] Heritage Bank of St. Tammany Rewards Checking ($100) - Visit a branch and open a rewards checking account with $50 to receive an immediate $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.heritagebank.org/personal-banking/checking/rewards-bonus
[Nationwide] HSBC Advance Checking ($200 Welcome Deposit) - Make recurring monthly Qualifying Direct Deposits totaling at least $500 from a third party to your HSBC Advance checking account(s) for 3 consecutive calendar months from the second full calendar month after account opening. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.us.hsbc.com/checking-accounts/campaigns/offers/
[Nationwide] HSBC Advance Checking (up to $240 Cash Bonus) - Enjoy 3% Cash Bonus, up to $240, on Qualifying Direct Deposits up to $40 per month, during the first 6 calendar months after account opening. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.us.hsbc.com/checking-accounts/campaigns/advance-checking/
[Nationwide] HSBC Premier Checking ($450 Welcome Deposit) - Make recurring monthly Qualifying Direct Deposits totaling at least $5,000 from a third party to your HSBC Premier checking account(s) for 3 consecutive calendar months from the second full calendar month after account opening. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.us.hsbc.com/checking-accounts/campaigns/offers/
[Nationwide] HSBC Premier Checking (up to $600 Cash Bonus) - Enjoy 3% Cash Bonus, up to $600, on Qualifying Direct Deposits up to $100 per month, during the first 6 calendar months after account opening. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.us.hsbc.com/checking-accounts/campaigns/premier-checking/
[MD] LM Federal Credit Union Free Checking ($50) - Open a free checking account. Within 45 days, complete 5 debit card transactions. Within 30 days, complete a direct deposit of $500 or more to earn a $50 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.lmfcu.org/About-LM/News-Promotions/Promotions/Open-a-New-Checking-Account
[MD] LM Federal Credit Union RegulaInterest Checking ($100) - Open a regular or interest checking account. Within 45 days, complete 5 debit card transactions. Within 30 days, complete a direct deposit of $500 or more to earn a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.lmfcu.org/About-LM/News-Promotions/Promotions/Open-a-New-Checking-Account
[NY] Mid-Hudson Valley FCU Checking ($200) - Use promo code GETSUN200 when opening a new account. Set up direct deposit of $500 or more within 60 days of opening account for a $200 cash bonus. Choose FREE CHECKING account for no fees. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.mhvfcu.com/$200-checking-offer
[TX] Neighborhood Credit Union Checking ($100) - Visit the new NCU branch in Anna, Texas and open your checking account using promo code ANNA. Complete a direct deposit of $500 or more within 60 days to earn a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.myncu.com/anna
[IL, WI] North Shore Bank Checking w Debit Card *LONG TERM* ($300) Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.northshorebank.com/get300
[AZ] OneAZ Credit Union Student Checking ($100) - Activate new debit card to get a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.oneazcu.com/nau/
[OR] OnPoint Community CU Lloyd Center Checking ($100) - Sign up for unique promo code: set up a $100 direct deposit within the first 2 months to get a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.onpointcu.com/lloyd-center-branch-move/
[OR] OnPoint Community CU North Lombard Checking ($100) - Sign up for unique promo code: set up a $100 direct deposit within the first 2 months to get a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.onpointcu.com/north-lombard-branch-grand-opening/
[CA] Orange County Credit Union Checking ($100) - Use promo code BEST100 to open checking account and within 60 days enroll in e-statements and sign up for a debit card, and complete a direct deposit to receive a $100 reward. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.orangecountyscu.org/latest/best-of-oc
[MI] Our Credit Union Checking ($100) - Matching deposit up to $100 for new Premium or Basic Checking account. Have at least one debit card transaction per month over 60 days. Must sign up for eStatements and complete a monthly direct deposit of $500 or more for 2 months. Must mention ad for matching deposit when opening. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.ourcuonline.org/join
[Many states] PNC Virtual Wallet ($200, may vary) - Have at least $2,000 in DD’s. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.pnc.com/en/personal-banking/banking/checking/campaigns/checking-vw-tiered-offer.html or https://www.pnc.com/en/personal-banking/banking/checking/campaigns/checking-offer-for-PNC-customers.html
[SD] Reliabank Student Checking ($100) - Open a new student checking account with a minimum opening deposit of $50 and receive the bonus of $100 deposited to the new account 45 days after account opening. (Students age 12-25) Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.reliabank.com/personal/checking.php
[TX] Resource One CU Spending Checking ($100) - Enter email to get unique promo code: complete 15 debit card purchases per month for the first 3 months to get a $100 bonus. Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.r1cu.org/promotions/spring-offe
[FL] Seacoast Bank Premium Checking/Savings ($500) - Open a Premium Checking account with $50 and a Savings Account using offer code DM500. To earn the $350 checking bonus, complete a direct deposit of $500 or more within 60 days of account opening. To earn the $150 savings account bonus, deposit a total of $15,000 or more within 10 business days of account opening and maintain said balance for 90 days.Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.seacoastbank.com/switchtoday
[OH] Seven Seventeen Credit Union Checking ($100) - Become a member by making a $5 deposit into a Membership Savings Account. Open account with a $25 deposit using promo code FREE20, sign up for eStatements, and set up recurring direct deposits of $200 or more OR make 30 debit card transactions to earn a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.717cu.com/Landing-Pages/checking100-offer
[MN, WI] Spire Credit Union Free Checking ($100) - Open a Spire Free Checking account with an opening deposit of $100 or more. Set up an automatic payment or direct deposit and complete 6 debit card transactions within 60 days to receive a $100 bonus. Account must remain open for six months. $100 bonus will be deposited to the checking account upon account opening. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.myspire.com/about-spire/current-promos
[IN] Star Financial Checking ($200) - Enter your email address on the offer page to request the bonus coupon. Once unique coupon is received, set up a $500 monthly direct deposit, complete 5 debit card purchases, and enroll in estatements within the first 4 months to get a $200 bonus.Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.starfinancial.com/switch/offer
[NY, OH, PA] S&T Bank Checking ($350) - Open a Preferred, Select, or Four Star checking account online to receive a $50 bonus. Sign up for online statements and make ten $10 qualifying debit card transactions to receive a $100 bonus. Finally, receive a $200 bonus for keeping the account active for 6 months. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.stbank.com/money-tree-promotion
[AZ, CO, KS, MO, NM, TX] Sunflower Bank Checking ($200) - Open a new personal checking account. Complete 20 debit card purchases AND have ACH credits or debits totaling $500 or more that all post to the account on or before 10/31/20. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.sunflowerbank.com/Welcome200
[AZ, CO, KS, MO, NM, TX] Sunflower Bank Checking ($200 + $50 To Your School) - Open a new personal checking account with $100, complete 20 or more debit card purchases and have ACH credit, ACH debits or a combination of both totaling $500 or more to receive a $200 bonus plus a $50 donation to your school of choice granted they are participating in the ABC program. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.sunflowerbank.com/abc
[AL, AR, FL, GA, MD, MS, NC, SC, TN, VA, WV, DC] SunTrust Advantage Checking ($400) - Open a new Advantage checking account using promo code Q320ADVANTAGE. In the first 3 months after opening your account, complete at least $3,000 in Direct Deposits a month for two consecutive months to receive a $400 bonus. Must keep a minimum of $0.01 in the account to be eligible for the bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.suntrust.com/lp/advantage-offer
[AL, AR, FL, GA, MD, MS, NC, SC, TN, VA, WV, DC] SunTrust Essential Checking ($200) - Use promo code Q320ESSENTIAL and open Essential Checking with $100. Within the first three full months after opening the account, complete at least $500 in Direct Deposits, per statement cycle, for two consecutive cycles. Must keep a minimum of $0.01 in the account to be eligible for the bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.suntrust.com/lp/checking-offer
[IL] Town and Country Clear E-Checking ($100) - Open a new Clear E-Checking account with $50, set up a monthly direct deposit of $500 or more, and make 5 debit card transactions within the first month. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.townandcountrybank.com/current-offers.html
[IL] Town and Country CU Star Rewards Checking ($250) - Set up a $250 direct deposit within the first month to get a $250 bonus. Must present flyer or mention promotion to redeem. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.townandcountry.org/star-rewards-250
[IL] Town and Country High Yield Savings ($100) - Open a new Relationship High Yield Savings account with $10,000 and maintain said balance for 120 days to receive a $100 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.townandcountrybank.com/current-offers.html
[NE] Union Bank & Trust Checking/Savings ($200) - Receive $150 when you open an interest-earning checking account (Bonus, Journey, Premier, or Premium Interest Advantage) and have $2,500 in electronic direct deposits posted within 90 calendar days of account opening. Receive $50 when you open a Union Savings account and maintain a $2,500 balance for 90 calendar days from account opening. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.ubt.com/get200
[CT] Westfield Bank Checking ($300) (Connecticut) - Open a new Free Checking account using promo code $300CTConsumer at a Connecticut branch with $10. Order a debit card and receive a $50 bonus. Enroll in eStatements and receive a $50 bonus. Sign up for direct deposit and receive $200 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.westfieldbank.com/new-ct-offices/
[Many states] Chase Private Client Bonus ($2,000) - Upgrade to Chase PC and transfer a total of $250,000 or more in new money or securities to a combination of eligible checking, savings and/or investment accounts (excludes Chase business checking and savings accounts, any You InvestSM, J.P. Morgan retirement accounts and CDs), and maintain the balance for at least 90 days. Exp Oct. 1, 2020 https://account.chase.com/consumebanking/chaseprivateclient
[CT, DE, MA, MI, NH, NJ, NY, OH, PA, RI, VT] Citizens Bank Checking and Savings (Up to $600) - Set up $500 direct deposit within 2 months to get a $300 bonus. Deposit $15,000 in a new savings account for 3 months to get an additional $200 bonus. Get an extra $100 for completing both bonuses. Total potential bonus of $600. Exp Oct. 1, 2020 https://www.citizensbank.com/promotion/checking/cash-offer-600g.aspx?offer=
[AZ, CA, CO, ID, IA, KS, MN, MO, NE, NV, NM, ND, OK, OR, SD, UT, WA, WI, WY] Bank of the West Any Deposit Checking ($250) - Make direct deposits totaling $1,000 or more per month, for 3 months in a row. Exp Oct. 2, 2020 https://www.bankofthewest.com/campaigns/personal-banking/checking-offer-bonus-a?trgid=b2
[MA] Middlesex Savings Bank Freedom Checking ($125) - the debit card(s) associated with the account must be used at least eight (8) times within the first sixty (60) days of account opening. Exp Oct. 4, 2020 https://www.middlesexbank.com/spotify
Business
[AZ, FL, IL, IN, KS, MN, MO, WI] BMO Harris Business Essential/Advantage Checking ($200/$500) - Enter your information using the offer link below to request a bonus offer code, and bring the code into a branch. Open a Business Advantage checking account and deposit $1,500/$5,000 or more within 30 days. Maintain a $1,500/$5,000 or more balance for 90 days. Have at least 10 electronic transactions within 90 days to receive the bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.bmoharris.com/main/business-banking/bank-accounts/bb-checking-offe
[MS, NC, SC, TN, TX, VA] First Horizon Bank Business Checking and Savings (Up to $450) - Use promo code BZD300 to open a BizeEssentials Checking: deposit $5,000 and complete 5 qualifying transactions within the first month to get a $300 bonus. Use promo code SMBSSV to open a BizEssentials Savings: deposit $2,500 to get a $150 Visa gift card. Total potential max bonus of $450. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.firsthorizon.com/landing/business/300-bize-checking-landing-bzd300
HSBC Fusion Business Checking ($250) - Deposit $5,000 within the first month and maintain that balance for 3 months. Register and log on to HSBCnet within 45 days of account opening for a $250 bonus. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.us.hsbc.com/fusion/
[CT, DE, MD, NJ, PA, VA, WV, DC] M&T Bank Tailored Business Checking ($300) - Request a coupon code to be emailed to you, then bring this code in to a branch. Open the Tailored Business Checking account. M&T will give you a $300 bonus if the average ledger balance in the account if at least $5,000 for the third full calendar month after the account was opened. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://bank.mtb.com/bizbonus/landing-page-685FT-57558B.html
[AL, DC, DE, FL, GA, IL, IN, KY, MD, MI, MO, NC, NJ, NY, OH, PA, SC, VA, WI, WV] PNC Business Checking ($200 to $500) Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.pnc.com/content/pnc-com/en/small-business/banking/business-checking-overview/business-checking-offer.html
[OH] Westfield Bank Business Checking ($300) - Bring flyer into your local Westfield Bank Branch. Open a new Business Checking Account with $100. $300 will be deposited into your account when the account is opened. Exp Sept. 30, 2020 https://www.westfieldbank.com/images/uploads/WFB_000105_CT_BizBanking_Specials_8_5x11_WeHaOpen_HR_Web(1).pdf.pdf)
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2020.09.28 15:43 Dedmon3000 Watching competitive Hearthstone (September 28 through October 4)

Hi guys. Before I get to past and future streaming action, I wanted to let you know that I found some details about the World Championship. More details are down near the end of this post.
The Championship comes at an interesting time - near when I expect the new expansion to be released. The big money tournament could be just before its release, which would obviously provide a lot of pre-release promotion; or the tourney could be just after its release, which would provide a lot of heartburn for our competitors (not that I feel sorry for them, at all), as well as the ultimate post-release promotion. I'm rooting for chaos, but we'll see.
And now, back to our scheduled action.
VODs:
Upcoming events:
If I happen to miss something that should be added, let me know and I will do so. Thanks for reading!
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2020.09.28 10:39 rejamrejam [Blythe dolls] Betrayal and backlash in the big-eyed doll community when a convention organizer loses $23K

WHO IS BLYTHE
Blythe was a fashion doll produced by Kenner (perhaps better known as the Star Wars figures company) for a single year in the seventies. Inspired by Betty Boop, she had a large head and huge eyes, with the gimmick that when you pulled a string on the back of her head, her eyes closed, and when they opened they changed color and expression.
Groovy and glam Blythe did not do well in the toy market, probably because many found her proportions and wide-eyed stare unsettling, as many* still do. However, decades later she was rediscovered, and when TV producer Gina Garan was introduced to creative director Junko Wong and released a book of photography entitled THIS IS BLYTHE featuring the doll, Blythe was catapulted into the spotlight.
Blythe fever swept the world, she appeared in ad campaigns for Target’s Alexander McQueen collab and on boxes of hair dye, and Japanese company Takara, makers of the extremely popular Licca doll, acquired the rights to her image and began producing reproductions in fresh, modernized outfits and hairstyles, ushering in a new era of rabid fans. The craze took root in Japan (always ahead of the curve when it comes to big-eyed cuteness) and rapidly spread to the western world, including a bustling North American fanbase. Blythe had finally found her audience, and a diverse audience it was—she attracted toy collectors, old women, elitist BJD fans, hobby seamstresses, sculptors, goths, pastel kawaii princesses, pop surrealist artists, and more, all united by their love of Blythe’s quirky looks and the burgeoning and extremely popular customization community that kept pushing the limits of what a Blythe could look like.
The community thrived on Flickr and on several message boards, perhaps most notably a forum that we will call Blythe Castle, a fantasy-themed wonderland of buying, selling, trading, generous hints-and-tips sharing, and photo exchanging. The community grew both expansive and tightly-knit, engaging in photo challenges, sharing mail, and having community in-jokes and memes. Eventually it became clear that with such a diverse fanbase uniting so passionately over one hobby, a convention simply must take place—and so Blythecons began.
BLYTHECON
The first couple of American Blythecons—and the Blythecons in other countries—aren’t relevant to this post. Suffice to say that they were a smash hit, the vendors did a brisk business, photos of giant piles of big-eyed dolls arranged on staircases flooded Flickr pages, and everyone had a grand old time planning for next year. Information for those early days—including for the drama we are about to discuss—has largely been lost to the sands of time, so I apologize for any gaps in detail.
Blythecon 2012 went off swimmingly with no major hiccups, and kudos poured in for the event organizers, including two Blythe Castle administrators: we’ll call them Eri and Red. Despite neither of them living anywhere close to Dallas, the city in which the con was held, they organized remotely and the attendees, to judge from the internet chatter at the time, had a great time. Blythecon 2012 showed the community shaping up into a real force: there were demonstrations, contests, and immediate plans for Blythecon 2013, to be held in New York City in October.
Prebooked tickets sold briskly in 2012 and the community was from an early date abuzz with excitement about the upcoming event, which promised to be even better than the Dallas show. Plans were made early, despite an unusual lack of communication coming down from above about concrete details.
People had faith in Red and Eri after the enormous success of the previous year, and held tight despite the occasional uneasiness as the con date crept closer. Which made it all the more shocking when eventually, just a month before the convention was scheduled to occur, Eri made a public post on a journal devoted to chronicling scammers and shady business dealings in the dolly community, and the information rapidly spread across the Castle.
THE EXPOSURE
The explosive post was brief, but ugly: Red had informed Eri that the Blythecon money, which had been kept in Red’s personal account, had been garnished. A grim line in the post summed up the situation in brief: “$23428.18 is gone. I have received $3893.36 back and will need $8906.64 by next Friday, to make BlytheCon happen.”
Red was apparently selling dolls on the Blythe Castle forums to attempt to recoup the money. In the comments to the post, Eri laid out the entire email history between herself and Red—at least dating from the time that Red finally began answering emails, as she had apparently been ignoring them.
In the lengthy discussions that followed—dating back to mid-August for a convention, remember, slated to happen in October—Red claimed that the money had been garnished a month before, and that she had attempted suicide in the aftermath. She repeatedly brought up her suicide attempt, her mental health, and her limited internet access (unexplained), until Eri was compelled to state, firmly, that feelings of guilt were not relevant to the conversation: the money needed to be accounted for, and quickly, or Eri would have to call off the event.
Eri in the emails also mentions the grim reality of her own situation: while Red’s name is on the financials, her own name is on the event, and when this all comes crumbling down she will not only face public backlash in a community where many people have her address and contact information, she can be—according to her lawyer—held legally an accomplice. She demands Red come clean publicly, even if it has to be in a vague way, and Red demurs, saying that her own legal advice had been to the contrary, apparently not realizing why Eri is asking this of her.
In the increasingly cagey series of emails Red makes various promises to supply money from this or that location on some future date, and offers to send Eri a pile of dolls and “sundries” (clothes and accessories for dolls) to sell to raise funds, then continues to be cagey about the tracking numbers for said packages. She says that cancelling the event would not “be fair” for attendees, in a moment that one can only describe as a little tone-deaf. Eri, having run out of ultimatums and having involved the police, went public.
Understandably, all hell broke loose. I myself discovered this when returning from a long hiatus and finding Red’s username on the forum with BANNED written under it, several deleted threads, and a notably sluggish and uninvolved community that had been bouncing along speedily months before, in a moment akin to touching one’s fingertips to the ground and murmuring “some great violence occurred here.” But for the moment, there was still a loud contingent of people who insisted: the show must go on. The convention must continue. The money must be gotten, the ticketholders must have something to show for their funds, and the convention, despite everything, must be held.
The promised box of dolls and sundries arrived to Eri two days after the situation went public, and Eri began selling off the dolls to raise money to secure the venue. In the meantime Red continued finalizing sales of dolls she had listed on the Castle forums, and donations poured in from some generous anonymous benefactors, listed by initial in an update post by Eri to assure people that yes—the funds were coming together, and the convention would not, despite everything, be canceled. Eri also mentioned that one member of the community had gotten in touch with an offer to act as financial adviser which she—wisely—had accepted. Equally wisely, she had insisted to Red that money raised from Red’s doll sales be sent to an independent Paypal account and not Eri’s own personal one.
In the meantime, Eri came under scrutiny, and the community—quite understandably—had questions. Why wasn’t the venue secured earlier, when tickets went on sale the year before? Why did Eri cover for Red for weeks of back-and-forth emailing instead of freely informing the public what was at stake? Shouldn’t Eri step down as admin of the Castle forums and let someone else take the reins? And why on EARTH was the money being held in Red's personal bank account? The debate raged on, but still, there was a more pressing issue—the convention itself.
THE CONVENTION
Miraculously, the story has a better ending than such hobby drama stories generally do. Doubtless many started this story and formed an impression of a canceled con or a disaster, but—shockingly—neither happened.
The community rallied. The funds were acquired. Legal action was pursued in earnest against Red by both Eri and members of the community, and the convention, against all odds, went on. In October, in New York City, hundreds of Blythe fans gathered at the hotel and there were vendors, demonstrations, and—of course—lots and lots of dolly photos. Videos taken from the convention floor look cheery, post-Facebook chatter is pleasantly joyful, and all in all few seem to even remember that the con funds were absconded with by a respected member of the community.
THE FALLOUT
Despite the success of Blythecon 2013, the stain was there, and the final post on the 2013 convention’s Facebook page—on the heels of several happy discussions about vendor tables—is a detailed list of instructions for pursuing legal action against Red. The Castle forums never quite recovered from the shock of Red’s betrayal, and Eri, while maintaining her post as admin, never had quite the public trust that she had had before. The forums continued to be active, but the pall cast by the event lingered and probably—although this is speculation—helped contribute to their winding down. The community drifted to Facebook, torn asunder still more by the flagging of Flickr—hitherto a primary gathering place for fans—and to Instagram, and to this day remains fragmented. Blythe Castle still stands, but between the 2013 fallout and classic forums falling out of fashion, it is a very quiet—and often silent—place.
In a last little stab of drama, some of the buyers of Red’s emergency sale Blythes posted that they had never gotten their dolls. These public conversations peter out. The final post remaining on the original discussion post is an ominous reply to someone asking if restitution was ever made. Posted in December by one of Red’s buyers, two months after the convention, it reads in its entirety: “Nope.”
Blythecons in North America, however, continued. As far as I am aware, there has been a successful Blythecon every year until Blythecon Calgary 2020, when COVID-19 did what Red couldn’t and robbed Blythe fans of their annual place to hang out with their big-eyed plastic pals, bonding over their shared, somewhat eccentric hobby. It continued online, was apparently—for an online convention—pretty successful, and brought a spark of unity to an increasingly-fragmented community.
It’s unlikely that anything will ever replace the close-knit, unified North American Blythe community that existed before 2013. It’s equally unlikely that 2013 was entirely to blame for the fragmentation of the fanbase when so much of it can be chalked up to evolving technology and changing social media landscapes, as well as quality issues with Takara Blythes and the flood of cheap and divisive counterfeits (a subject for another post), but it did undoubtedly have some effect on the Blythe Castle part of it. But although the hobby has grown increasingly far-flung, it remains filled with passionate fans, and many of the names that turned up in discussions about Red’s betrayal, Eri’s cover-up, and last-minute hotel bookings back in 2013 still show up in conversations about Blythe today—and conventions, along with their funds, are handled with a lot more scrutiny.
*I love Blythe but the first time I bought one I turned her face to the wall while I slept. It takes some getting used to.
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2020.09.27 21:01 hlacquisitions PSA: Vote your proxy in favor of the HCCH extension

Back again, SPACbros. For those of you here who are HL shareholders or have followed the story of our transaction with Fusion Fuel, thanks for your support. I know this sub has been inundated of late with posts asking you to vote your proxies for FMCI, SHLL, GRAF, etc., well I’m here to do the same. We require an extension in order to consummate our business combination with Fusion. While the extension would give us until January 2, we hope to complete the SEC review process and schedule the merger vote before the end of October. Anyway, I want to impress on you the importance of voting your shares in favor of the extension. Similar to FMCI, we need to receive votes representing 65% of our outstanding shares to approve the extension.
If you haven’t received your proxy materials and voting instructions from your broker, call your broker to request them, as well as your control number, which allows you to vote online or by phone, toll free in North America at 1-877-870-8565, or collect from any country at 1-206-870-8656. If your broker doesn’t provide you with a control number (or worse, doesn't permit you to vote), we’re asking shareholders to fill out the proxy card (the last page our extension proxy filing) and email it to your broker with your information, the number of shares held, and voting instructions. Please copy our proxy solicitor on the email at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]).
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2020.09.27 20:09 SR-the-Elder Trump May Yet Get Bitten By His Demands.

I firmly believe if Dopey Don tries to throw this election into the Supreme Court, it will backfire on him. First, the Biden campaign has the legal right to demand a recount in counties and/or states (as did Al Gore in 2000.)
This is all the more prescient considering multiple red states may well attempt to ignore uncounted vote-by-mail ballots come the mythical witching hour due to Donny’s repeated demand the counting of mail-in ballots end at midnight, November 4th. Of course, Trump’s toadies can file in court to block an attempted recount.
“Recounts typically occur in the event of a close margin of victory, accusations of election fraud, or the possibility of administrative errors. Recounts can either occur automatically or be requested by a candidate or voters. Across the 50 states, 20 states have a statutory provision allowing for automatic recounts, and 43 states have a statutory provision allowing for requested recounts.”(1)
“Recounts can happen in races at any level, from local offices up to presidential elections. In the case of presidential elections, however, recounts are carried out at the state level rather than nationally.”(2)
We saw with Bush v Gore “...election law raises particular concerns going to the heart of the democratic process. In ‘Judicial Activism and Passivism in Election Law’ Professor Dan Tokaji argues that the judicial default should be passivism, but when minority rights are at stake or those in power seek to entrench themselves, judicial activism is warranted and necessary.”(3)
What ultimately sunk Gore was the intense disagreement over voter intent—the now infamous hanging and dimpled chads—so after five weeks of arguing, of haggling, the US Supreme Court ordered the recount to end.
Thankfully, mail-in ballots don’t have chads or punch outs—consider that part of Lessons Learned From 20 Years Past. And unless voters are less than explicit as to whom they prefer on their returned ballots, intent should be as crystal clear as many sources of spring water once were.
What COULD prove to be the proverbial fly in the ointment is this: “On Thursday (September 24) Florida Sen. Rick Scott proposed a bill that would change election laws with less than six weeks to go until November’s election... (his) Help America Vote Act of 2020 would require that mail-in ballots be counted within 24 hours of when voting closes on election day.”(4)
“Scott’s proposed legislation would also prevent mail-in ballots received prior to election day from being processed and counted until the morning of Nov. 3...”(5)
“Under Scott’s law, those votes would all have to begin to be counted on election day itself. Any votes that did not get counted simply would not count.”(6)
Surely, Scott isn’t a complete idiot—all evidence thus far to the contrary—but by attempting to limit the counting of what might prove to be in excess of one hundred thousand vote-by-mail ballots across the entire country, his proposed law would constitute VOTER NULLIFICATION.
Consider, too, “...late-arriving absentee military ballots in Florida were a major point of contention during the contested presidential election of 2000, with Republicans at the time supporting the idea that late ballots be counted.”(7)
So here we have yet another instance of then old-school GOP and contemporary Trump Party hypocrisy regarding contradictory positions from at least several years ago (the Obama-can’t-nominate-a-SCOTUS-justice-during-his-last-year-in office thang) going back to the year 2000 election.
All done in a desperate attempt by Dopey Don and his stooges, plus assorted lackeys, toadies and sycophants, to remain in power.
Using the Bush v Gore election as a template, Donny’s efforts to rush a verdict out of the election by refusing to count ballots mailed back by an arbitrarily contrived date, simply will not work. There appears to be too much legal precedent already established to deny Biden the reasonable amount of time needed to determine the winner of November’s election, so every vote really will count.
Without getting too technical: “Nullification, in United States constitutional history, is a legal theory that a state has the right to nullify, or invalidate, any federal law which that state has deemed unconstitutional with respect to the United States Constitution (as opposed to the state's own constitution). The theory of nullification has never been legally upheld by federal courts.”(8)
“Courts at the state and federal level, including the U.S. Supreme Court, repeatedly have rejected the theory of nullification. The courts have decided that under the Supremacy Clause of the Constitution, federal law is superior to state law, and that under Article III of the Constitution, the federal judiciary has the final power to interpret the Constitution.”
It would appear Scott’s proposed bill, should it somehow become law prior to November 3rd, will be challenged in high courts of law, only to ultimately be ruled as unconstitutional.
In the end, Trump has no legal standing to insist a final determination as to the outcome of the election must be rendered once clocks click to midnight of the 4th. “Because U.S. elections are run at the local or state level there is considerable variation on voting protocol and tabulation systems.”(10)
“‘We have all gotten used to knowing the results of the election at 10 p.m. on Election Night, sometimes the morning after. It's going to be different this year,’ Steve Simon, Minnesota secretary of state, said in a press release. ‘It might take a few days, or up to a week until ballots are all in and counted.’”(11)
Here in California, the “...law requires the Secretary of State to certify statewide election results no later than 38 days after the election. (Elections Code § 15501(b).) The law does not permit the Secretary of State to withhold certification of the election for any reason.”(12)
Submitted, as well, for your consideration: the popular vote serves only to determine those who participate as electors to ultimately attend the conclave during which the identity of the next president will be resolved by the Electoral College.
“Following election day, the states are to count and eventually certify the vote according to their respective statutory and procedural requirements. When the states have completed the vote count and ascertained the official results, the U.S. Code (3 U.S.C. §6) requires the state governors to prepare, ‘as soon as practicable,’ Certificates of Ascertainment of the vote. The certificates must list the names of the electors chosen by the voters and the number of votes received in the popular election results, the names of all other candidates for elector, and the number of votes they received.”(13)
Once that process is completed, the following might apply to this election. “December 8, 2020: The ‘Safe Harbor’ Deadline—The U.S. Code (3 U.S.C. §5) provides that in a contested election in any state, if the state, prior to election day, has enacted procedures to settle controversies or contests over electors and electoral votes, and if these procedures have been applied, and results have been determined six days before the electors’ meetings, these results are considered to be conclusive, and will apply in the counting of the electoral votes.”(14)
In the end, Trump the Russian Agent Orange can prattle, bloviate and fall to the ground in an apoplectic state but he has NO legal authority to force states to determine the final ballot count by the striking of midnight, November 4th. In fact, by so doing, all he is likely to accomplish is LENGTHENING the time needed to reach the final vote tally as courts will be dragged into the process by both sides.
The consequence of his sheer stupidity in demanding instant gratification—behavior frequently associated with a toddler—Trump will waddle merrily along while needlessly drawing out the time required TO come to a conclusion regarding the identity of the president for the next four years.
Oh, well—it’s not like his irascibility and petulance haven’t come back to bite his copious posterior many times already. His character flaws and pathological insecurities have and will continue to, as the TV commercials assure us, Take a bite out of crime—HIS crimes.
Steve Rohosky 09/ 27/ 2020 Sacramento, CA
(1) Noteworthy recounts in the United States - Ballotpedia
(2) ibid.
(3) https://scholarship.law.upenn.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1060&context=penn_law_review_online
(4) Senator Rick Scott Wants to Disenfranchise Military and Other Voters Voting by Mail By Stopping Counting After 24 Hours Election Law Blog
(5) ibid.
(6) ibid.
(7) ibid.
(8) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nullification_(U.S._Constitution)
(9) ibid.
(10) https://www.cnbc.com/2020/08/14/election-2020-state-officials-prepare-for-delayed-results-of-up-to-a-few-weeks.html
(11) ibid.
(12) Statewide Recounts — Frequently Asked Questions :: California Secretary of State
(13) https://www.archives.gov/files/electoral-college/state-officials-instructions.pdf
(14) https://crsreports.congress.gov/product/pdf/IF/IF11641
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2020.09.27 19:08 biggreekgeek Flatten the Curve. Part 53. IoT Surveillance. Recorded Future can Predict our Future. Petraeus. The Pandemic Era and Environmental Collapse. Oh. Do you Remember All the Dead Elephant's? I Do. And It Gave More Evidence of the Environmental Collapse Cover-up. It's Worse Than They Tell Us.

I'm back. And it's time to get back to work. I know that a lot of you have been refreshing and looking out for my posts, and I'm sorry. Life just got way too busy and left me too tired to write. And even though you probably thought that I'd gone missing, I bet you the Surveillance State didn't. Nope. The all seeing eye knew exactly where I was. And not only me, it knows where you are. It knows where all of us are. And it probably knows us better than we know ourselves.
2010, August 28 • Google, CIA Invest in 'Future' of Web Monitoring. The investment arms of the CIA and Google are both backing a company that monitors the web in real time – and says it uses that information to predict the future. The company is called Recorded Future, and it scours tens of thousands of websites, blogs and Twitter accounts to find the relationships between people, organizations, actions and incidents – both present and still-to-come. In a white paper, the company says its temporal analytics engine "goes beyond search" by "looking at the 'invisible links' between documents that talk about the same, or related, entities and events." The idea is to figure out for each incident who was involved, where it happened and when it might go down. Recorded Future then plots that chatter, showing online "momentum" for any given event. "The cool thing is, you can actually predict the curve, in many cases," says company CEO Christopher Ahlberg, a former Swedish Army Ranger with a PhD in computer science. Source Here
That's so amazing isn’t it? You can actually predict the curve. Well now, let's think, were have we seen that curve terminology before? Population Curve? Nope, that's not right. Curve Your Enthusiasm? That doesn't sound right either. Right, it's Curb Your Enthusiasm. Duh. The Learning Curve? Ugh. I just can't remember, can you? Oh shoot, that's right, it's the Title of My Post's, Flatten the Curve. Ok. Moving on. Let's get back to Recorded Future.
Occupy Wall Street Media Monitoring • In 2011, Recorded Future reported, "... gaining online momentum for the Occupy Wall Street movement. When we look more carefully at influencers in this discussion using our Influencer Map, we find that Iran Press TV is the second largest influencer after the U.S. media!" Source Here
Recorded Future saw online momentum for the Occupy Wall Street Movement. But. But. Does that mean they knew the social discord was going to lead to today's riots? Could they be manipulating police to follow orders without fear of repercussions for the future? Nah. They couldn't have, otherwise police officers wouldn't be going to go jail after violating a citizens rights, right?
2020, June 22 • Police in America’s biggest cities are failing to meet even the most basic international human rights standards governing the use of lethal force, a new study from the University of Chicago has found. Researchers in the university’s law school put the lethal use-of-force policies of police in the 20 largest US cities under the microscope. They found not a single police department was operating under guidelines that are compliant with the minimum standards laid out under international human rights laws. Among the failings identified by the law scholars, some police forces violate the requirement that lethal force should only be wielded when facing an immediate threat and as a last resort. Some departments allow deadly responses in cases of “escaping suspects”, “fugitives”, or “prevention of crime” – all scenarios that would be deemed to fall well outside the boundaries set by international law. Top UN human rights expert urges US to listen to demands of protesters. In other cities, police guidelines failed to constrain officers to use only as much force as is proportionate to the threat confronting them. Source Here
Hmmm. Maybe the militarization of our police is starting to make a lot more sense now, doesn’t it? It makes you feel all warm and fuzzy to know that pretty soon that same police force will be able to track you anywhere.
May 15, 2012 • CIA Chief: We'll Spy on You Through Your Dishwasher. It's great that you've got so much new household hardware connected to the internet. Especially for the CIA, whose director wants to spy on you through it. More and more personal and household devices are connecting to the internet, from your television to your car navigation systems to your light switches. CIA Director David Petraeus cannot wait to spy on you through them. SOURCE HERE
What's David Petraeus talking about? The Internet of Things. That same Internet of Things that 5G is being rushed out for. That same Internet of Things that will help usher in the Fourth Industrial Revolution. That same 4th Revolution that the World Economic Forum is calling the Great Reset. Perfect Plan. Crisis. Crap your pants. Solution. If you think the Surveillance State is omnipresent now, just wait until the infrastructure is built for the next level of control. For our safety, of course. Keep Calm and Carry On. The Not Normal New Normal is going to be very dangerous. And to save us from the Not Normal New Normal they have to keep us safe from Fake News with Fact Checks. Wash Your Hands and Wear Your Mask. Keep your Contact Tracer App Up to Date. Don't gather in large groups, use the internet to keep in touch with friends and loved ones, that way we can data mine those conversations to keep you safe from conspiracy theorists antivax who propagate propoganda.
September 2, 2020 • Although the coronavirus pandemic has altered how people live for some time now, the knowledge that it will have an end is a faint light at the end of a long socially distanced tunnel. But, according to new research, that light may be further than we thought. Infectious disease expert and coronavirus task force voice of reason Anthony Fauci believes we may be entering a “pandemic era.” Because of course we are. Source Here
The Pandemic Era. Line up and get shot, errr, sorry, I meant, line up and get your shots. Don't be an antivaxer. Save Civilization, Get Your Vaccination. Remember, we won't have a second wave, it will just be one long continuous wave. Wait. Hold up. Nope. That's wrong. We are having a second wave. Surf's up so don't wipe out.
His assertion comes from a new report in the scientific journal Cell, whose author David Morens, a medical historian and colleague of Fauci’s at the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, predicts that coronavirus might be only the first of a series of worldwide diseases. These types of diseases have been cropping up more and more frequently, according to research. The phenomenon is similar to the exponential growth of climate change, meaning if a “pandemic age,” becomes a reality, it joins humanity’s very real race to doomsday. Neat!
Ah. The Pandemic Era and Environmental Collapse. Amazing! It's the sequel that we've been waiting for! Mad Max and Pandemic Road. And who is causing the upcoming doom? Why us, who else. You see, the enemy isn't at the gates, that Trojan Horse was yesterday's news. The Terrorists that were threatening Western Civilization have been beaten back, only to be replaced by an enemy that can't be seen or heard. The Biological Terrorists. And how are we responsible for the Great Bioterror that needs a Great Reset?
As for the culprit to this acceleration? It’s us, of course. For how humans are causing this acceleration, Fauci and Morens point to deforestation, urban crowding, and wet markets for wild game, which have been wreaking havoc for a century and contribute to environmental degradation around the world.
Us. It's always us. We don't listen. We just Keep Calm and Carry On. But now we're going to have to listen. We won't have any choice, will we? The environment is collapsing. It's our fault. We own the companies. We package small items in big boxes because, marketing. We dump toxic chemical waste that poison people. We make cellphones that are outdated in one year. We're the one's lying about plastic being recycled. What? You actually thought you were doing your part and saving the environment?
2020, September, 21 • The industry's awareness that recycling wouldn't keep plastic out of landfills and the environment dates to the program's earliest days, [NPR] found. "There is serious doubt that [recycling plastic] can ever be made viable on an economic basis," one industry insider wrote in a 1974 speech. Yet the industry spent millions telling people to recycle, because, as one former top industry insider told NPR, selling recycling sold plastic, even if it wasn't true. Here's the basic problem: All used plastic can be turned into new things, but picking it up, sorting it out and melting it down is expensive. Plastic also degrades each time it is reused, meaning it can't be reused more than once or twice. On the other hand, new plastic is cheap. It's made from oil and gas, and it's almost always less expensive and of better quality to just start fresh. As it turns out, less than 10% of plastic has ever been recycled.

Ever.

Source Here
It's us.. We demand these things. What? Does that shock you? Of course that's why they make our goods disposable, the public demands it. It's not like marketing works and the demand is a manufactured need to increase their profits. Nope. It's us. Our existence is killing the planet. This wouldn't be happening if there weren't so many of us. Because this is obviously the first extinction level event that could be happening because of abrupt climate change.
2020, September, 25 • A New Mass Extinction Event Has Been Discovered, And It Triggered The Rise of Dinosaurs. Source Here
Oh. Six mass extinction events. But it's us isn't it? Just look around. Birds falling from the sky. Fish washing up on shore. Elephant's dying.

WAIT! HOLD UP!

Didn't I write about the Elephant's dying? Yep. Flatten the Curve. Part 30 And didn't I say that it was cyanobacteria because I saw a pond that looked like it was outgassing hydrogen sulfide gas in a video I linked to? Yes, yes I did. And guess what? The Greek was right.
More than 300 elephants in Botswana have been killed by toxin-producing cyanobacteria in waterholes, government wildlife officials said Monday. But that explanation doesn't satisfy some conservationists. The deaths, which took place over the course of three months, were first recorded in May and reported in early July. Their cause was initially a mystery; Botswana ordered laboratory tests to be carried out on carcass, soil and water samples as speculation grew over the deaths. Cyanobacteria are routinely found in water, but not all produce toxins. Scientists worry that climate change will trigger the bacteria to produce more toxins as water temperatures rise and conditions become more favorable for the bacteria to grow. Source Here
That doesn't satisfy some conservationists? Really? Worldwide reports of a rotten egg smell. Dogs dying when they jump into cyanobacteria filled waters. Rivers turning red. Nah. The New Normal is our New Normal, until AI turns it into our New New Normal.
Pax Technica • What is the internet of things? This pax will not be dominated by any one state, Howard argues, but by “a special kind of stability in global politics, revealing a pact between big technology firms and government”. The categories of democracy and dictatorship will fall. In their place, he claims, will be data-driven socio-technocracies, built on the intensive reporting of our behaviours, habits, tastes and beliefs, seamlessly transmitted by the devices we use, carry and interact with. We won’t need to express our political preferences and needs: our white goods and driverless cars will express them for us. Source Here By tracking us in intensive and intrusive ways – not only in our homes, but in our vehicles and bodies – data-driven devices can nudge, manipulate and mould our behaviours, habits and preferences, limit our autonomy, and bring quantification, segregation and discrimination to what is currently a political economy held together by social fuzziness.
They'll be able to shape and modify our behavior. And when you put Recorded Future and other companies into the mix, guess what happens? They'll shape and modify our behaviours before they become our behaviours, because they'll already know how we'll behave in the future. Kind of like the shaming of antivaxer behavior before they announce:
Annual COVID-19 Vaccine May Be Necessary. Source Here
Or priming us for AI to save the environment:
According to a recent survey by Intel and the research firm Concentrix, 74 percent of business-decision makers working in environmental sustainability agree artificial intelligence (AI) will help solve long-standing environmental challenges; 64 percent agree the Internet of Things (IoT) will help solve these challenges. As the field of AI develops, so will the potential to protect the environment. From the land and air to both drinking and ocean water, AI is shaping up to be the key that governments, organizations, and individuals can tap to work toward a cleaner planet. Source Here
Do you see where all this is going? The AI and IoT will be everywhere. It will save us from the Collapse, which really means, it will save us from ourselves. Do you see the convergence that's taking place? No? Let me remind you. Because if we are the problem, then we aren't alone.
Coronavirus which is killing and infecting people all over the world was created in a Lab in China's Wuhan, such an idea would have been labelled a conspiracy theory until a few weeks ago. But earlier this week, a Chinese virologist Dr Li-Meng Yan, in an exclusive conversation with WION claimed that the deadly coronavirus was developed in a government laboratory in Wuhan. She also said that Chinese government was aware of the COVID-19 spread. And now Professor Giuseppe Tritto, an internationally known expert in biotechnology and nanotechnology in his book 'China COVID 19: The chimera that changed the world' has said that he believes the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) is behind the Wuhan coronavirus (COVID-19), leaving little doubt that this viral “chimera” was artificially created as a bioweapon. Source Here
Researchers claim long-term exposure to air pollution in China killed 30.8 million people between 2000 and 2016. Source Here
We're going to war against China, while they get the security apparatus up for AI in the war against our minds and individuality. For an environmental collapse they blame us for. And they will focus our shame into anger towards China.
The system will be set up. We will go to war with China. And the system will be fully executed by the time the war is done. It will have to be, for our safety, of course. And AI will keep us safe. Right? RIGHT! Wait. So then why are all the elite building Doomsday Bunkers? Almost like the 1% are covering their bases in case AI can't save us.
One of the most insidious things about gaslighting is the denial of reality. Being denied what you have seen. Being denied what you have experienced and know to be true. It can make you feel like you are crazy. But you are not crazy. Dr Robin Stern, associate director at Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and author of The Gaslight Effect says that usually “when people are abused there are signs that you can point to that are much more obvious. Someone who has been hit or threatened for instance – it’s easy to see and understand how they have been hurt. But when someone is manipulating you, you end up second-guessing yourself and turning your attention to yourself as the person to blame”. Source Here
DARVO - Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. Or, Gaslighting. It's a popular term. It's a great way to make us feel like powerless victims. Gaslighting makes us feel like we need to be saved. When you're searching for answers but only end up finding confusion, it's setting you up to accept any New Normal answer they'll eventually give you. Need someone to blame for the state of chaos? Here's China. They're the problem. We're All In This Together, and You're Either With Us Or Against Us. And there will be people against the war, and therefore against us, so we'll need surveillance to protect us from the enemies within. Because another War will be a necessary evil. World War Three will be the War to save the planet by destroying the planet. Makes sense, doesn't it? And when our planet is worse off than before? Then we'll need the surveillance to help us decide when to have Climate and Pandemic lockdowns. The omnipresent Eye of AI will guide us and safeguard us against Fake News and Not Normal New Normal Narrative disrupting lies. We will have to kill what's left of our privacy because dangerous thoughts are born in secrecy.
We must become a transparent society, because the truth doesn't need to hide. The truth is universal. But who decides what is true? Not us. We can't be trusted. Look what we already did with our privacy, we destroyed our planet. So we have to become dependent upon the system and trust the choices that the system makes. We can't just follow system orders though, we have to become a part of the system, a unified whole working towards the common good of all mankind. But what happens when you question the choices? What happens if your thoughts and actions disrupt the Not Normal New Normal Narrative?
Let's check back with David Petraeus a year later after openly musing about how the IoT will make surveillance ubiquitous in our society.
2012, November 9 • Petraeus Resigns From CIA After Feds Uncover 'Extramarital Affair' Source Here David Petraeus, the director of the Central Intelligence Agency, has resigned. Petraeus told CIA employees Friday in a letter that he was stepping down "for personal reasons... After being married for over 37 years, I showed extremely poor judgment by engaging in an extramarital affair. Such behavior is unacceptable, both as a husband and as the leader of an organization such as ours."
2012, November 11 • How I Was Drawn Into the Cult of David Petraeus. The biggest irony surrounding CIA director David Petraeus’ downfall is becoming a casualty of the very publicity machine he cultivated to portray him as superhuman. I have some insight into how that machine worked. Source Here
2020, November 15 • Now the CIA Is Investigating Petraeus. Anyone who thought the scandal around CIA Director David Petraeus was winding down can think again. Now the CIA is investigating its former leader while some agency veterans whisper that they never liked him anyways. Source Here
Oops. I think David said something that he shouldn't have said about IoT and Surveillance. It's a quick fall from Superhero To Villan when you reveal the Superhero Clubhouse Secrets.
Look. Listen. Think. Question. All the time. The information is out there. So's the truth, even if it's camouflaged. Because the truth is, the big picture is a lot more complicated than thought reducing and behavioral shaping memes. Life isn't black and white. That's why they call it a Grey War. And the Grey War is happening all around us. And in the coming weeks I'll be posting some eye opening stories about the Dark Web, Blockchain, and the current narrative about inequality. About a certain pharmaceutical company and how it's DNA tests are failing the grade. We will dive into the Uighur Minority in China. And most importantly, Cicada 3301, and how it seems to be playing a larger role than most of us realize. And some updates on the current microbial imbalance that is starting to cause havoc on our planets environment. And as if that isn't enough for eye opening revelations, there is a disturbing trend that I've noticed regarding asteroids and impacts. Because why not, after all, 2020 isn't a real party until a Rockstar crashes the party.
I may have been too tired to post lately, but I wasn't too tired to read. Thanks again for all the comments and PM's checking in on me. It meant the world to me, even if I didn't have time to respond.
Heads up and eyes open. Talk soon.
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2020.09.27 16:08 travel_ali A few more thoughts and experiences after 5 years.

It is now just over 5 years since I moved from the UK to Switzerland. There have been many surprises along the way. I moved here with a 1 year temporary contract and had vague plans to work, see the country at weekends, and then move on elsewhere after. During this time I have moved house, moved job, been unemployed for a few months, explored the country, met and worked with Swiss people from various parts of the country and Expats of various backgrounds, oh and gotten married to a Swiss person.
This is not an all out guide (there are plenty of those), more my reflections and a few lessons learned.
I have posted before after 1 year and after 2.5 years.I have also written pretty extensively about travelling here and Switzerland in general – an overview post of all that is here.
---Resources---
I came in knowing practically nothing other than a frantic check of anything I needed to do to avoid being kicked out.
  • The book “Living and Working in Switzerland : A Survival Handbook” by David Hampshire, is very useful.
  • Various dedicated websites with more serious official information sem.admin.ch, and Ch.ch, and to an extent websites like SwissInfo.
  • Various websites with more unofficial but helpful information. The EnglishForum.ch is a treasure trove of information and experiences. But there are endless other places like Newlyswissed, and Swiss and Chips that vary between useless fluff and very useful info.
---Why and how---
  • I did a PhD in the UK and as I was finishing it up and looking for a PostDoc I basically just got a job here in a place I had never heard of through chance by a chain of contacts. I had been looking to move abroad but for some reason Switzerland had never occurred to me.
  • Initially I arrived on a 1 year contract with Firm A, with the strong likelihood of it being extended to 2 years. It ended up as 2.5, by which time I was moved in with my girlfriend and I was set on sticking around. Job hunting was slower than I expected, so before starting on a new position at Firm B I applied to unemployment benefits for what turned out to be just a month (not sure I need to be so secretive really, but why not).
  • I basically just moved with my laptop and as much clothing as I could fit in a 60L backpack. I didn’t botheforgot to declare anything (not that I brought anything of any value with me).
  • I got lucky with housing, but that could have been the biggest problem. Initially I had been expecting to stay at a flat rented by the company for a month or two until I found my own place. This got cancelled at the last minute and I found myself trying to find a flat to move straight into. In the end I staying at a hostel for a week and moved into a shared flat found through WGzimmer.ch before the end of the week. There are not many shared flats compared to the UK, and applying for a flat often feels more like applying for a job or dating with the process dragging on for much longer than the “You like it? OK deposit and sign here” method in the UK. Starting early and getting help from your company is certainly advisable there.
---Bureaucracy, Rules, and Paperwork---
I had feared this would be a slow and complicated torture, but to date this has all been very quick, easy, and painless. In large part probably because I had a job already, I was an EU citizen, and I had an address lined up quickly.
  • Dealing with the local authorities has always been fast, efficient, and friendly. Other than collecting my residency permit every so often when a contract has been renewed I have only had to deal with them very periodically, but any phone call or visit has taken no more than 20 minutes with very little waiting. This might just be because I live in a small city – maybe in Zürich or a tiny village it is different.
  • I had a slight delay in getting my permit and bank account activated as I waited for the landlord to approve my place as subtenant and give me a contract for proof of address (despite the fact I was already living there). This didn’t create any problems, my firm just gave me an envelope stuffed with bank notes for my first payment.
  • Setting up a PostFinance bank account was easy (even with a language barrier then). 20 minutes of filling in a form and showing a few documents.
  • Despite the reputation for rules and order I have not noticed much difference to life in other industrialised western countries. If anything it is more relaxed in many ways. There are some stricter rules like having to use pre-taxed bin bags or minimal noise on a Sunday, but these are mostly reasonable enough. It is nice not hear endless lawn mower engines on a Sunday afternoon. The only rule that seems pointless is having to tie up paper in a perfect bundle for recycling. Maybe if I ever try and build a house or plan an extension it will get more complex and painful.
  • You are supposed to swap your driving licence within a year, or unable to drive in Switzerland and be made to repeat the test again if you want a Swiss licence. I didn’t apply at first given that I never intended to drive here or stay much longer at first. When I did apply after 2.5 years through the standard process (just to see what would happen) I actually did just get given a Swiss licence without being asked to go through the whole testing process.
  • The mandatory health insurance is easy enough to set up with all the big companies offering English support.
  • Tax was originally paid at the source (as is standard for foreign workers up until you are on a C permit), but now being married and treated as a combined legal entity I am paying tax through the standard method.
  • Going through the marriage process was also easy. Being an EU citizen marrying a Swiss citizen helped. There was some confusion when they asked for a statement from the UK govt saying I was not married as this apparently has not been given out in years, but a quick chat resolved that problem.
---Money---
  • I make roughly 100k CHF per year. This is decent by Swiss standards, given my education and experience I could get more in another firm/position here, but I am happy with my workplace and would be very reluctant to give up my scenic riverside commute by bike.
  • Saving money has not been a problem. Even bearing most of the household costs with a studying partner. Not having a car, pets, kids, or eating/drinking out much helps there. My main non-essential expense is the general train pass and food/accommodation costs for weekends around the country.
  • The high prices take some getting used to at first, but when you work here it isn’t so bad (once you learn to stop converting them back to your native currency). The positive side is that when you leave Switzerland everything is suddenly so cheap.
--- The Swiss ---
I like the Swiss.
  • I have never had any problems with the Swiss; despite the number of comments I see online bemoaning the fact that whilst Switzerland is a beautiful country it would be terrible to live in as the locals hate foreigners. I have never had a moment of hostility and experience less general rudeness than I would expect back home in the UK (even with language/culture barriers to push the patience).
  • I am however white, from a north-western European country which doesn’t have many expats in Switzerland, and educated (outside the expense of the Swiss people). So I am probably not going to be the target of much racism or xenophobia.
  • Whilst not the warmest people in the world there is a certain friendliness, especially in informal situations. Put a Swiss person in the countryside and they will be friends with anyone. In rural restaurants especially sharing a table with strangers and saying hello/goodbye to everyone there as a whole is standard practice.
  • I am also more on the introverted side so a quieter and orderly country is probably more my sort of place than some of the commenters.
---Making friends---
My friendship group is a mix of Swiss and other expats. It is easier to integrate with other expats, though I find that the younger generations of Swiss are much more open than the old jokes of knowing a Swiss person from birth or for 40 years to be their friend would suggest.
---Language---
I have written fairly extensively about Swiss-German before
  • I had some very basic German in the distance past from school. Then started learning before I arrived. Now I am B2/C1 with German and working towards A2 with French.
  • I didn’t need to get a language certificate (still don’t really). Partly I put it off thinking I would wait until the next level, and partly that the grammar and me are not friends. I have finally taken the TELC B2 exam for German and am waiting on the results for that.
  • English is very widely spoken. Frustratingly so at times, even in seemingly obscure and remote little places I have people speak back to me in English when they hear my accent.
  • If you live in a city and work in an international workplace then knowing the local language isn’t really needed. Though I certainly don’t recommend doing that.
  • It is natural to think that everyone here speaks German/French/Italian fluently (and maybe some Romansch), but that is far from the case. Some do have all 3, many are fluent in 2, but very often English is the preferred common language outside of their mother tongue. Likewise the way the language regions tend to have very hard borders without much overlap was a bit surprising at first.
  • Being in a country with multiple languages will never get boring. Especially somewhere that actually is bilingual like Biel where it isn’t uncommon for a shopkeeper to forget what language they were speaking to you in and switch from German to French.
---Surprises---
  • Those bastard fancy landscape photos didn’t show the fog did they? From September to February temperature inversion means that much of the low lying middle of Switzerland can be sat in/under a thick fog. How bad this is varies by location; some places barely get any whilst others turn into Silent Hill. Already shorter winter days can be shortened by hours as the light is swallowed. The plus side is that above the fog you get super clear views, but it gets depressing after weeks of daily life sat in it.
  • The country is much livelier than I expected. The stereotype of a grey serious place might have been true decades ago but certainly isn’t now. Especially in summer there are constant music festivals, lively bars, and flotillas of people floating down the rivers in inflatable flamingos. Granted it still isn’t Latin America.
  • I was not prepared for Swiss-German, my then basic German knowledge didn’t stand a chance. I have been working on this and managed to put together as comprehensive collection of resources as you are likely to find anywhere for Swiss-German.
  • The Swiss see summer as BBQ season in a way that makes the Aussies look like amateurs. I have seen people lighting up fires on tiny balconies in Zürich to BBQ on.
  • How much there is outside of the Alps. Maybe it was my ignorance before, but I was surprised by how many beautiful spots there are even in the topographically boring parts of the country.
---Swiss Achievements---
  • Aromat on the table.
  • Making a fire in the countryside to roast a cervelat.
  • Phoned the police to lodge a nose complaint (the Bünzli award). It was 2am on a weekday and the 5th night in a row. I haven’t started to phone the police because my neighbour sneezed too loudly on a Sunday (yet).
  • Raclette grill and Fondue caquelon in the kitchen.
  • Swimming and floating in lakes and rivers.
  • Visiting more places in Switzerland than most Swiss people I know. A new country is always more interesting than your own backyard in fairness.
---Why I am still here---
I certainly never thought I would be here 5 years later, but I am very happy to still be around.
  • It is a beautiful and safe county with nice people, high quality services and infrastructure. Having understood the culture and learnt the language is an incentive too.
  • I keep finding work. The Swiss level income is a nice bonus, but it really isn’t the thing that is driving me to stay here.
  • The thing I would find hardest to give up is the freedom of the landscape. The extent of paths and smaller roads around the country that are open to anyone. Making it so easy and carefree to get out and anywhere, especially by foot or bike.
  • It is much more varied than you would expect. Both in landscape and culture there is plenty of different things to see and take in so there is always something to do.
  • I also dislike driving, so the extensive public transport system is fantastic.
---What I dislike---
Not much.
  • Less smokers and more Australian like rules on smoking would be very nice (EG no smoking in areas where people are eating, including outdoors). It would be nice to sit down on a terrace at a restaurant and not worry if a chain smoker is going to sit down at the table next to you.
  • More exotic food and longer shop opening times would be nice (seeing the supermarkets closed at 18:30 was a hell of a shock at first) but I have gotten used to that.
---Regrets---
  • Not getting a language certificate before.
  • Not joining a club. I have looked but really nothing has taken my fancy.
---Changes with time---
  • I have gotten too used to the landscape. I still admire the view from the train window, but it is never as special or exciting as during the first few months.
  • My town has seen an increase in English speakers. Mostly due to the growth/arrival of a few big MedTech firms.
  • E-bikes are increasingly everywhere. I had never seen one before I arrived and was surprised to see them all over town. Now they are all over the countryside too with mountain E-bikes being very common.
  • The climate seems to be getting warmer and drier every year.
  • The amount of rubbish and anti-social noise (especially blue-tooth speakers) seems to be getting worse. People seem especially unable to bother carrying their empty cans and disposable BBQ with them from the riverside during summer. Thankfully it isn’t common in the countryside, but the number of people who need an absurdly loud speaker at all times is sad.
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2020.09.27 13:00 lenalikesboots A few of my POTO wants

Hi guys!!!
I'm close to completing my POTO video collection! However, for that to happen, I still need a few videos. Hit me up if you have any of these videos:
Phantom Follies Rob Guest, Marina Prior, Dale Burridge, Maree Johnson, Caroline Ferrie 1992; Australia "Australian cast puts on skits and spoofs for charity, runs for over two hours. Some of the skits/parodies: 'Beauty School Dropout,' 'The Three Raoul Amigos,' 'A Charade,' 'I'm Too Sexy,' a rock version of 'Il Muto,' and a rap/dance version of 'Think of Me'."
Brad Little, Elizabeth Southard, Tim Martin Gleason January 11, 2004; Orlando Matinee performance. Three DAT files. Small picture with a lot of washout and fuzziness. Looks like it was filmed by the same person who did the evening performance on the same date. Brad Little's last matinee performance in the national tour
Damian Aleksander, Paulina Janczak/Edyta Krzemien, Marcin Mrozinski/Piotr Domalewski 2008 (?); Warsaw, Poland Various clips, highlights, and trailers from the Polish production, mostly ripped off YouTube. Combination of MP4 and FLV file
Brad Little, Claire Lyon, Anthony Downing Late 2014/Early 2015; Hong Kong, China Poorly shot, very far away video. MP4 files. Lots of blackouts, often not focused on the stage in Act 1, but improves slightly in Act 2.
Dmitry Ermak, Tamara Kotova, Eugeny Zaycev 2015; Moscow, Russia MP4 files, highlights of Act 1 only: Hannibal, 'Think of Me', 'The Mirror', and the title song
Brad Little, Emilie Lynn/Kristi Holden, Anthony Downing 2015; World Tour A bunch of Instagram clips of various scenes and actors from the World Tour. To be gifted.
Hugh Panaro, Sandra Joseph, John Cudia, Jeff Keller, George Lee Andrews, Patricia Phillips, Marilyn Caskey, Larry Wayne Morbitt, Joelle Gates* August 9, 2003; Broadway Rather massive head blocks most of the bottom, but filmer does their best to shoot around it.
Howard McGillin, Rebecca Pitcher, Michael Shawn Lewis, Julie Schmidt (u/s), David Cryer, George Lee Andrews, Marilyn Caskey, Roland Rusinek, Heather McFadden* August 18, 2006; Broadway Terrific quality video, very sharp colors and details. Audio is out of sync starting at 'Angel of Music' but is fixed by the title song.
Absolutely Phantomless April 13, 1995; Australia "The Australian cast of Phantom of the Opera in their annual Easter Charity Concert. Each of Cameron Mackintosh’s Australian shows participates at midnight after their regular performances. These shows feature the cast members parodying songs and other shows, with a slight tilt towards their own productions. Pro-shot for video, these tapes were made for cast and crew only."
Chopper Opera Rob Guest, Danielle Everett, John Bowles April 4, 1996; Sydney, Australia "The Sydney casts of Phantom of the Opera and Miss Saigon feature in this Easter Charity concert. Features "adapted" music from both shows in addition to pop music and songs from other shows. Pro-shot for video but generation loss."
Tomasz Steciuk, Edyta Krzemien, Marcin Mrozinski, Anna Gigiel, Jan Bzdawka, Jakub Szydłowski, Wojciech Socha July 8, 2011; Wieliczka, Poland 5 MP4 files of a concert version of the Polish production. Includes most of the big numbers and limited sets and costumes.
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays December 10, 2013; Broadway Highlights, turnofthescorpion's master.
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays January 18, 2014; Broadway
Marcus Lovett, Sofia Escobar, Simon Thomas, Lara Martins, Duncan Smith (u/s), Gareth Snook, Cheryl McAvoy, Jeremy Secomb, Layla Harrison (u/s) March 6, 2013; London 6 minute WMV video, containing parts of 'Think of Me', 'Angel of Music', 'The Mirror', title song, 'Music of the Night', 'Stranger Than You Dreamt It', and 'All I Ask of You'. Blurry shot most of the time, but sometimes clears up, though is not zoomed in. Still, great to see video of Sofia Escobar.
Marcus Lovett, Anna O'Byrne, Simon Thomas April 22, 2013; London Two VOB clips only, 'Music of the Night' and 'All I Ask of You Reprise'. (Note: Image is cropped; it's much taller than it looks here.)
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays October 4, 2013; Broadway Turnofthescorpion's master. Starts from 'Wandering Child', mostly blindshot. MT2 file.
James Barbour, Ali Ewoldt, Jordan Donica July 15, 2016; Broadway Act 1 only, MP4 file, mostly blindshot.
Phantom Compilation 1 Original review: "San Francisco local news behind-the-scenes segment with Franc D'Ambrosio and Lisa Vroman; Mid-August 1999, All I Ask of You and Music of the Night on Today Show with Ted Keegan, Sarah Pfisterer, and Gary Mauer; 1993, Today Show Broadway 5th anniversary segment with Mark Jacoby, Karen Culliver, etc.; 1993, Michael Crawford interviewed and performing "Since You Stayed Here" on Regis & Kathie Lee and Good Morning America; E! Entertainment behind-the-scenes special of LA production hosted by Davis Gaines, with Dale Kristien, Michael Piontek, and Calvin Remsberg; 1989, CBC Behind the Mask behind-the-scenes documentary on Toronto production with Colm Wilkinson, Rebecca Caine, Byron Nease, Hal Prince, Andrew Lloyd Webber, Cameron Mackintosh, etc."
Phantom Compilation 2 Behind-the-scenes special on the national tour in Buffalo with Ted Keegan and Rebecca Pitcher, mainly in black-and-white, as well as similar behind-the-scenes special in Seattle with similar content (in color) and interviews.
Rob Guest, Maree Johnson, Peter Cousens 1994; Sydney, Australia Midday Special that aired on TV; includes interviews and four proshot songs: 'Music of the Night', 'Prima Donna', 'All I Ask of You', and 'Masquerade'.
Laird Mackintosh (u/s), Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays January 22, 2014; Broadway Laird Mackintosh's second time as the Phantom on Broadway; includes 'All I Ask of You Reprise', 'Point of No Return', and 'Final Lair'. M2T file.
James Barbour, Kaley Ann Voorhees, Jeremy Hays March 2, 2015; Broadway A bunch of MP4 videos consisting of scattered, generally Christine-oriented highlights. This was uploaded to Instagram live at the performance, so all parts are 15 seconds long. Consists of parts of 'Think of Me', 'The Mirror', title song, 'Music of the Night', rooftop, 'Wishing', 'Point of No Return', and 'Final Lair'. Parts are well-shot (sometimes it looks like the person is right under the cast member!). 
Various Phantom of the Opera-Related Clips Clips all copied off of TV: Steve Barton & Sarah Brightman singing AIAOY live, Sarah Brightman and Steve Harley's concept POTO video, interviews with Michael Crawford during his Phantom run, 1988 Tony Award Presentation to Michael Crawford, Michael Crawford and Dale Kristien performing POTO, Michael Crawford AIAOY duet with Dale Kristien, Michael Crawford in concert performing MOTN, Davis Gaines and Tracy Shayne performing MOTN, German version of MOTN sang on a TV set, German version of POTO Video, PONR with Sarah Brightman and Michael Crawford, Michael Crawford and Sarah Brightman performance at the Tony Awards, Michael Crawford and Dale Kristien – Music of the Night, Sarah Brightman singing MOTN,footage of the OBC at the Majestic Theatre, Robert Guillaume and Dale Kristien – MOTN, Colm Wilkinson singing MOTN, Unidentified Raoul and Christine performing AIAOY, Michael Crawford video of MOTN, interview footage with Steve Barton.
Tim Martin Gleason, Trista Moldovan, Sean MacLaughlin* 2010; Cleveland Not my review: "This documentary aired on August 9, 2010. It includes interviews with the Advance Stage Manager, the Conductor, a Playhouse Square VP, Trista Moldovan and Tim Martin Gleason, and the Wardrobe Supervisor. Also includes footage clips from the current 2010 Phantom cast, filmed here in Cleveland."
Peter Karrie, Teresa DeZarn, Kip Wilbourne 1997; Vancouver, Canada Half hour segment from The Slate on BBC Wales about Peter Karrie's time in the Phantom Canadian production. Includes interviews and proshot clips with the cast at the time, but has some pretty heavy distortion and color bleeding.
Ian Jon Bourg, Alison Kelly, Janine Kitzen, Maike Switzer, Beatrix Reiterer 2000 and onwards; Hamburg, Stuttgart, and Essen, Germany Proshot videos of Ian Jon Bourg performing in-concert with various Christines. About 30 minutes long.
Ian Jon Bourg, Lori Zeglarski (?), Kyle Gonyea 2000 (?); Hamburg, Germany Act 2 only, includes part of the March 31, 1999 video with Jerzy Jeszke, Carla Nicholson, and Bjorn Olsson. Christine was labeled as Colby Thomas, but it looks like Lori Zeglarski. Date is also a guess.
Ian Jon Bourg, Janine Kitzen, Michael Shawn Lewis November 16, 2002; Stuttgart, Germany Monitor video of one of the first shows in Stuttgart, with audio fed in from the soundboard. Decent color and exposure; better than the other two monitor videos that came out of Stuttgart. Filming continues through intermission, so video features 30 minutes of curtains. LIMITED TRADE.
Ian Jon Bourg, Sandra Danyella September 4, 2005; Essen, Germany Promotional outdoor concert for the Essen production, includes 'Wishing', title song, and 'Music of the Night'.
Andrew Lloyd Webber, Cameron Mackintosh, Charles Hart, Gillian Lynne, Richard Stilgoe, Michael Crawford, Sarah Brightman, etc. December 26, 2006; Various Locations Not exactly an online video of the show, but the 'Behind the Mask' special documentary, taken directly off the BBC 2 channel.
Some other POTO videos:
- Video: Steve Lucas, Kristin Holck, Carsten Lepper; March 2004; Stuttgart, Germany; monitor video - Video: Hugh Panaro, Susan Owen, Tim Martin Gleason; October 1, 2005; Broadway; Panaro's last matinee of his 2005 run - Video: Christian A. Muller, Anne Gorner, Niklaj A. Brucker; March 11, 2007; Essen, Germany; last performance, monitor video - Video: Osamu Takai, Shiho Ito, Yusuke Kitazawa; June 30, 2008; Osaka, Japan - Video: Nic Greenshields, Gina Beck, Simon Bailey; May 16, 2009; London; Phanasma's master - Video: Howard McGillin, Jennifer Hope Wills, Ryan Silverman; June 25, 2009; Broadway; Howard McGillin's last - Video: John Cudia, Marni Raab, Ryan Silverman; November 17, 2009; Broadway - Video: John Owen-Jones, Celinde Schoenmaker, Nadim Naaman; December 1, 2015; London; cityofemeraldtrading's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; May 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; P. Rose's master - Video: Fred Silveira, Giulia Nadruz, Henrique Moretzsohn; August 2019; Sao Paulo,Brazil; P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; December 14, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; evening, P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Giulia Nadruz, Fred Silveira; December 15, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; last matinee, P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; December 15, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; last performance, P. Rose's master
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2020.09.27 13:00 lenalikesboots A few of my POTO wants

Hi guys!!!
I'm close to completing my POTO video collection! However, for that to happen, I still need a few videos. Hit me up if you have any of these videos:
Phantom Follies Rob Guest, Marina Prior, Dale Burridge, Maree Johnson, Caroline Ferrie 1992; Australia "Australian cast puts on skits and spoofs for charity, runs for over two hours. Some of the skits/parodies: 'Beauty School Dropout,' 'The Three Raoul Amigos,' 'A Charade,' 'I'm Too Sexy,' a rock version of 'Il Muto,' and a rap/dance version of 'Think of Me'."
Brad Little, Elizabeth Southard, Tim Martin Gleason January 11, 2004; Orlando Matinee performance. Three DAT files. Small picture with a lot of washout and fuzziness. Looks like it was filmed by the same person who did the evening performance on the same date. Brad Little's last matinee performance in the national tour
Damian Aleksander, Paulina Janczak/Edyta Krzemien, Marcin Mrozinski/Piotr Domalewski 2008 (?); Warsaw, Poland Various clips, highlights, and trailers from the Polish production, mostly ripped off YouTube. Combination of MP4 and FLV file
Brad Little, Claire Lyon, Anthony Downing Late 2014/Early 2015; Hong Kong, China Poorly shot, very far away video. MP4 files. Lots of blackouts, often not focused on the stage in Act 1, but improves slightly in Act 2.
Dmitry Ermak, Tamara Kotova, Eugeny Zaycev 2015; Moscow, Russia MP4 files, highlights of Act 1 only: Hannibal, 'Think of Me', 'The Mirror', and the title song
Brad Little, Emilie Lynn/Kristi Holden, Anthony Downing 2015; World Tour A bunch of Instagram clips of various scenes and actors from the World Tour. To be gifted.
Hugh Panaro, Sandra Joseph, John Cudia, Jeff Keller, George Lee Andrews, Patricia Phillips, Marilyn Caskey, Larry Wayne Morbitt, Joelle Gates* August 9, 2003; Broadway Rather massive head blocks most of the bottom, but filmer does their best to shoot around it.
Howard McGillin, Rebecca Pitcher, Michael Shawn Lewis, Julie Schmidt (u/s), David Cryer, George Lee Andrews, Marilyn Caskey, Roland Rusinek, Heather McFadden* August 18, 2006; Broadway Terrific quality video, very sharp colors and details. Audio is out of sync starting at 'Angel of Music' but is fixed by the title song.
Absolutely Phantomless April 13, 1995; Australia "The Australian cast of Phantom of the Opera in their annual Easter Charity Concert. Each of Cameron Mackintosh’s Australian shows participates at midnight after their regular performances. These shows feature the cast members parodying songs and other shows, with a slight tilt towards their own productions. Pro-shot for video, these tapes were made for cast and crew only."
Chopper Opera Rob Guest, Danielle Everett, John Bowles April 4, 1996; Sydney, Australia "The Sydney casts of Phantom of the Opera and Miss Saigon feature in this Easter Charity concert. Features "adapted" music from both shows in addition to pop music and songs from other shows. Pro-shot for video but generation loss."
Tomasz Steciuk, Edyta Krzemien, Marcin Mrozinski, Anna Gigiel, Jan Bzdawka, Jakub Szydłowski, Wojciech Socha July 8, 2011; Wieliczka, Poland 5 MP4 files of a concert version of the Polish production. Includes most of the big numbers and limited sets and costumes.
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays December 10, 2013; Broadway Highlights, turnofthescorpion's master.
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays January 18, 2014; Broadway
Marcus Lovett, Sofia Escobar, Simon Thomas, Lara Martins, Duncan Smith (u/s), Gareth Snook, Cheryl McAvoy, Jeremy Secomb, Layla Harrison (u/s) March 6, 2013; London 6 minute WMV video, containing parts of 'Think of Me', 'Angel of Music', 'The Mirror', title song, 'Music of the Night', 'Stranger Than You Dreamt It', and 'All I Ask of You'. Blurry shot most of the time, but sometimes clears up, though is not zoomed in. Still, great to see video of Sofia Escobar.
Marcus Lovett, Anna O'Byrne, Simon Thomas April 22, 2013; London Two VOB clips only, 'Music of the Night' and 'All I Ask of You Reprise'. (Note: Image is cropped; it's much taller than it looks here.)
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays October 4, 2013; Broadway Turnofthescorpion's master. Starts from 'Wandering Child', mostly blindshot. MT2 file.
James Barbour, Ali Ewoldt, Jordan Donica July 15, 2016; Broadway Act 1 only, MP4 file, mostly blindshot.
Phantom Compilation 1 Original review: "San Francisco local news behind-the-scenes segment with Franc D'Ambrosio and Lisa Vroman; Mid-August 1999, All I Ask of You and Music of the Night on Today Show with Ted Keegan, Sarah Pfisterer, and Gary Mauer; 1993, Today Show Broadway 5th anniversary segment with Mark Jacoby, Karen Culliver, etc.; 1993, Michael Crawford interviewed and performing "Since You Stayed Here" on Regis & Kathie Lee and Good Morning America; E! Entertainment behind-the-scenes special of LA production hosted by Davis Gaines, with Dale Kristien, Michael Piontek, and Calvin Remsberg; 1989, CBC Behind the Mask behind-the-scenes documentary on Toronto production with Colm Wilkinson, Rebecca Caine, Byron Nease, Hal Prince, Andrew Lloyd Webber, Cameron Mackintosh, etc."
Phantom Compilation 2 Behind-the-scenes special on the national tour in Buffalo with Ted Keegan and Rebecca Pitcher, mainly in black-and-white, as well as similar behind-the-scenes special in Seattle with similar content (in color) and interviews.
Rob Guest, Maree Johnson, Peter Cousens 1994; Sydney, Australia Midday Special that aired on TV; includes interviews and four proshot songs: 'Music of the Night', 'Prima Donna', 'All I Ask of You', and 'Masquerade'.
Laird Mackintosh (u/s), Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays January 22, 2014; Broadway Laird Mackintosh's second time as the Phantom on Broadway; includes 'All I Ask of You Reprise', 'Point of No Return', and 'Final Lair'. M2T file.
James Barbour, Kaley Ann Voorhees, Jeremy Hays March 2, 2015; Broadway A bunch of MP4 videos consisting of scattered, generally Christine-oriented highlights. This was uploaded to Instagram live at the performance, so all parts are 15 seconds long. Consists of parts of 'Think of Me', 'The Mirror', title song, 'Music of the Night', rooftop, 'Wishing', 'Point of No Return', and 'Final Lair'. Parts are well-shot (sometimes it looks like the person is right under the cast member!). 
Various Phantom of the Opera-Related Clips Clips all copied off of TV: Steve Barton & Sarah Brightman singing AIAOY live, Sarah Brightman and Steve Harley's concept POTO video, interviews with Michael Crawford during his Phantom run, 1988 Tony Award Presentation to Michael Crawford, Michael Crawford and Dale Kristien performing POTO, Michael Crawford AIAOY duet with Dale Kristien, Michael Crawford in concert performing MOTN, Davis Gaines and Tracy Shayne performing MOTN, German version of MOTN sang on a TV set, German version of POTO Video, PONR with Sarah Brightman and Michael Crawford, Michael Crawford and Sarah Brightman performance at the Tony Awards, Michael Crawford and Dale Kristien – Music of the Night, Sarah Brightman singing MOTN,footage of the OBC at the Majestic Theatre, Robert Guillaume and Dale Kristien – MOTN, Colm Wilkinson singing MOTN, Unidentified Raoul and Christine performing AIAOY, Michael Crawford video of MOTN, interview footage with Steve Barton.
Tim Martin Gleason, Trista Moldovan, Sean MacLaughlin* 2010; Cleveland Not my review: "This documentary aired on August 9, 2010. It includes interviews with the Advance Stage Manager, the Conductor, a Playhouse Square VP, Trista Moldovan and Tim Martin Gleason, and the Wardrobe Supervisor. Also includes footage clips from the current 2010 Phantom cast, filmed here in Cleveland."
Peter Karrie, Teresa DeZarn, Kip Wilbourne 1997; Vancouver, Canada Half hour segment from The Slate on BBC Wales about Peter Karrie's time in the Phantom Canadian production. Includes interviews and proshot clips with the cast at the time, but has some pretty heavy distortion and color bleeding.
Ian Jon Bourg, Alison Kelly, Janine Kitzen, Maike Switzer, Beatrix Reiterer 2000 and onwards; Hamburg, Stuttgart, and Essen, Germany Proshot videos of Ian Jon Bourg performing in-concert with various Christines. About 30 minutes long.
Ian Jon Bourg, Lori Zeglarski (?), Kyle Gonyea 2000 (?); Hamburg, Germany Act 2 only, includes part of the March 31, 1999 video with Jerzy Jeszke, Carla Nicholson, and Bjorn Olsson. Christine was labeled as Colby Thomas, but it looks like Lori Zeglarski. Date is also a guess.
Ian Jon Bourg, Janine Kitzen, Michael Shawn Lewis November 16, 2002; Stuttgart, Germany Monitor video of one of the first shows in Stuttgart, with audio fed in from the soundboard. Decent color and exposure; better than the other two monitor videos that came out of Stuttgart. Filming continues through intermission, so video features 30 minutes of curtains. LIMITED TRADE.
Ian Jon Bourg, Sandra Danyella September 4, 2005; Essen, Germany Promotional outdoor concert for the Essen production, includes 'Wishing', title song, and 'Music of the Night'.
Andrew Lloyd Webber, Cameron Mackintosh, Charles Hart, Gillian Lynne, Richard Stilgoe, Michael Crawford, Sarah Brightman, etc. December 26, 2006; Various Locations Not exactly an online video of the show, but the 'Behind the Mask' special documentary, taken directly off the BBC 2 channel.
Some other POTO videos:
- Video: Steve Lucas, Kristin Holck, Carsten Lepper; March 2004; Stuttgart, Germany; monitor video - Video: Hugh Panaro, Susan Owen, Tim Martin Gleason; October 1, 2005; Broadway; Panaro's last matinee of his 2005 run - Video: Christian A. Muller, Anne Gorner, Niklaj A. Brucker; March 11, 2007; Essen, Germany; last performance, monitor video - Video: Osamu Takai, Shiho Ito, Yusuke Kitazawa; June 30, 2008; Osaka, Japan - Video: Nic Greenshields, Gina Beck, Simon Bailey; May 16, 2009; London; Phanasma's master - Video: Howard McGillin, Jennifer Hope Wills, Ryan Silverman; June 25, 2009; Broadway; Howard McGillin's last - Video: John Cudia, Marni Raab, Ryan Silverman; November 17, 2009; Broadway - Video: John Owen-Jones, Celinde Schoenmaker, Nadim Naaman; December 1, 2015; London; cityofemeraldtrading's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; May 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; P. Rose's master - Video: Fred Silveira, Giulia Nadruz, Henrique Moretzsohn; August 2019; Sao Paulo,Brazil; P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; December 14, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; evening, P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Giulia Nadruz, Fred Silveira; December 15, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; last matinee, P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; December 15, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; last performance, P. Rose's master
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2020.09.27 12:55 lenalikesboots A few POTO wants

Hi guys!!!
I'm close to completing my POTO video collection! However, for that to happen, I still need a few videos. Hit me up if you have any of these videos:
Phantom Follies Rob Guest, Marina Prior, Dale Burridge, Maree Johnson, Caroline Ferrie 1992; Australia "Australian cast puts on skits and spoofs for charity, runs for over two hours. Some of the skits/parodies: 'Beauty School Dropout,' 'The Three Raoul Amigos,' 'A Charade,' 'I'm Too Sexy,' a rock version of 'Il Muto,' and a rap/dance version of 'Think of Me'."
Brad Little, Elizabeth Southard, Tim Martin Gleason January 11, 2004; Orlando Matinee performance. Three DAT files. Small picture with a lot of washout and fuzziness. Looks like it was filmed by the same person who did the evening performance on the same date. Brad Little's last matinee performance in the national tour
Damian Aleksander, Paulina Janczak/Edyta Krzemien, Marcin Mrozinski/Piotr Domalewski 2008 (?); Warsaw, Poland Various clips, highlights, and trailers from the Polish production, mostly ripped off YouTube. Combination of MP4 and FLV file
Brad Little, Claire Lyon, Anthony Downing Late 2014/Early 2015; Hong Kong, China Poorly shot, very far away video. MP4 files. Lots of blackouts, often not focused on the stage in Act 1, but improves slightly in Act 2.
Dmitry Ermak, Tamara Kotova, Eugeny Zaycev 2015; Moscow, Russia MP4 files, highlights of Act 1 only: Hannibal, 'Think of Me', 'The Mirror', and the title song
Brad Little, Emilie Lynn/Kristi Holden, Anthony Downing 2015; World Tour A bunch of Instagram clips of various scenes and actors from the World Tour. To be gifted.
Hugh Panaro, Sandra Joseph, John Cudia, Jeff Keller, George Lee Andrews, Patricia Phillips, Marilyn Caskey, Larry Wayne Morbitt, Joelle Gates* August 9, 2003; Broadway Rather massive head blocks most of the bottom, but filmer does their best to shoot around it.
Howard McGillin, Rebecca Pitcher, Michael Shawn Lewis, Julie Schmidt (u/s), David Cryer, George Lee Andrews, Marilyn Caskey, Roland Rusinek, Heather McFadden* August 18, 2006; Broadway Terrific quality video, very sharp colors and details. Audio is out of sync starting at 'Angel of Music' but is fixed by the title song.
Absolutely Phantomless April 13, 1995; Australia "The Australian cast of Phantom of the Opera in their annual Easter Charity Concert. Each of Cameron Mackintosh’s Australian shows participates at midnight after their regular performances. These shows feature the cast members parodying songs and other shows, with a slight tilt towards their own productions. Pro-shot for video, these tapes were made for cast and crew only."
Chopper Opera Rob Guest, Danielle Everett, John Bowles April 4, 1996; Sydney, Australia "The Sydney casts of Phantom of the Opera and Miss Saigon feature in this Easter Charity concert. Features "adapted" music from both shows in addition to pop music and songs from other shows. Pro-shot for video but generation loss."
Tomasz Steciuk, Edyta Krzemien, Marcin Mrozinski, Anna Gigiel, Jan Bzdawka, Jakub Szydłowski, Wojciech Socha July 8, 2011; Wieliczka, Poland 5 MP4 files of a concert version of the Polish production. Includes most of the big numbers and limited sets and costumes.
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays December 10, 2013; Broadway Highlights, turnofthescorpion's master.
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays January 18, 2014; Broadway
Marcus Lovett, Sofia Escobar, Simon Thomas, Lara Martins, Duncan Smith (u/s), Gareth Snook, Cheryl McAvoy, Jeremy Secomb, Layla Harrison (u/s) March 6, 2013; London 6 minute WMV video, containing parts of 'Think of Me', 'Angel of Music', 'The Mirror', title song, 'Music of the Night', 'Stranger Than You Dreamt It', and 'All I Ask of You'. Blurry shot most of the time, but sometimes clears up, though is not zoomed in. Still, great to see video of Sofia Escobar.
Marcus Lovett, Anna O'Byrne, Simon Thomas April 22, 2013; London Two VOB clips only, 'Music of the Night' and 'All I Ask of You Reprise'. (Note: Image is cropped; it's much taller than it looks here.)
Hugh Panaro, Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays October 4, 2013; Broadway Turnofthescorpion's master. Starts from 'Wandering Child', mostly blindshot. MT2 file.
James Barbour, Ali Ewoldt, Jordan Donica July 15, 2016; Broadway Act 1 only, MP4 file, mostly blindshot.
Phantom Compilation 1 Original review: "San Francisco local news behind-the-scenes segment with Franc D'Ambrosio and Lisa Vroman; Mid-August 1999, All I Ask of You and Music of the Night on Today Show with Ted Keegan, Sarah Pfisterer, and Gary Mauer; 1993, Today Show Broadway 5th anniversary segment with Mark Jacoby, Karen Culliver, etc.; 1993, Michael Crawford interviewed and performing "Since You Stayed Here" on Regis & Kathie Lee and Good Morning America; E! Entertainment behind-the-scenes special of LA production hosted by Davis Gaines, with Dale Kristien, Michael Piontek, and Calvin Remsberg; 1989, CBC Behind the Mask behind-the-scenes documentary on Toronto production with Colm Wilkinson, Rebecca Caine, Byron Nease, Hal Prince, Andrew Lloyd Webber, Cameron Mackintosh, etc."
Phantom Compilation 2 Behind-the-scenes special on the national tour in Buffalo with Ted Keegan and Rebecca Pitcher, mainly in black-and-white, as well as similar behind-the-scenes special in Seattle with similar content (in color) and interviews.
Rob Guest, Maree Johnson, Peter Cousens 1994; Sydney, Australia Midday Special that aired on TV; includes interviews and four proshot songs: 'Music of the Night', 'Prima Donna', 'All I Ask of You', and 'Masquerade'.
Laird Mackintosh (u/s), Mary Michael Patterson, Jeremy Hays January 22, 2014; Broadway Laird Mackintosh's second time as the Phantom on Broadway; includes 'All I Ask of You Reprise', 'Point of No Return', and 'Final Lair'. M2T file.
James Barbour, Kaley Ann Voorhees, Jeremy Hays March 2, 2015; Broadway A bunch of MP4 videos consisting of scattered, generally Christine-oriented highlights. This was uploaded to Instagram live at the performance, so all parts are 15 seconds long. Consists of parts of 'Think of Me', 'The Mirror', title song, 'Music of the Night', rooftop, 'Wishing', 'Point of No Return', and 'Final Lair'. Parts are well-shot (sometimes it looks like the person is right under the cast member!). 
Various Phantom of the Opera-Related Clips Clips all copied off of TV: Steve Barton & Sarah Brightman singing AIAOY live, Sarah Brightman and Steve Harley's concept POTO video, interviews with Michael Crawford during his Phantom run, 1988 Tony Award Presentation to Michael Crawford, Michael Crawford and Dale Kristien performing POTO, Michael Crawford AIAOY duet with Dale Kristien, Michael Crawford in concert performing MOTN, Davis Gaines and Tracy Shayne performing MOTN, German version of MOTN sang on a TV set, German version of POTO Video, PONR with Sarah Brightman and Michael Crawford, Michael Crawford and Sarah Brightman performance at the Tony Awards, Michael Crawford and Dale Kristien – Music of the Night, Sarah Brightman singing MOTN,footage of the OBC at the Majestic Theatre, Robert Guillaume and Dale Kristien – MOTN, Colm Wilkinson singing MOTN, Unidentified Raoul and Christine performing AIAOY, Michael Crawford video of MOTN, interview footage with Steve Barton.
Tim Martin Gleason, Trista Moldovan, Sean MacLaughlin* 2010; Cleveland Not my review: "This documentary aired on August 9, 2010. It includes interviews with the Advance Stage Manager, the Conductor, a Playhouse Square VP, Trista Moldovan and Tim Martin Gleason, and the Wardrobe Supervisor. Also includes footage clips from the current 2010 Phantom cast, filmed here in Cleveland."
Peter Karrie, Teresa DeZarn, Kip Wilbourne 1997; Vancouver, Canada Half hour segment from The Slate on BBC Wales about Peter Karrie's time in the Phantom Canadian production. Includes interviews and proshot clips with the cast at the time, but has some pretty heavy distortion and color bleeding.
Ian Jon Bourg, Alison Kelly, Janine Kitzen, Maike Switzer, Beatrix Reiterer 2000 and onwards; Hamburg, Stuttgart, and Essen, Germany Proshot videos of Ian Jon Bourg performing in-concert with various Christines. About 30 minutes long.
Ian Jon Bourg, Lori Zeglarski (?), Kyle Gonyea 2000 (?); Hamburg, Germany Act 2 only, includes part of the March 31, 1999 video with Jerzy Jeszke, Carla Nicholson, and Bjorn Olsson. Christine was labeled as Colby Thomas, but it looks like Lori Zeglarski. Date is also a guess.
Ian Jon Bourg, Janine Kitzen, Michael Shawn Lewis November 16, 2002; Stuttgart, Germany Monitor video of one of the first shows in Stuttgart, with audio fed in from the soundboard. Decent color and exposure; better than the other two monitor videos that came out of Stuttgart. Filming continues through intermission, so video features 30 minutes of curtains. LIMITED TRADE.
Ian Jon Bourg, Sandra Danyella September 4, 2005; Essen, Germany Promotional outdoor concert for the Essen production, includes 'Wishing', title song, and 'Music of the Night'.
Andrew Lloyd Webber, Cameron Mackintosh, Charles Hart, Gillian Lynne, Richard Stilgoe, Michael Crawford, Sarah Brightman, etc. December 26, 2006; Various Locations Not exactly an online video of the show, but the 'Behind the Mask' special documentary, taken directly off the BBC 2 channel.
Some other POTO videos:
- Video: Steve Lucas, Kristin Holck, Carsten Lepper; March 2004; Stuttgart, Germany; monitor video - Video: Hugh Panaro, Susan Owen, Tim Martin Gleason; October 1, 2005; Broadway; Panaro's last matinee of his 2005 run - Video: Christian A. Muller, Anne Gorner, Niklaj A. Brucker; March 11, 2007; Essen, Germany; last performance, monitor video - Video: Osamu Takai, Shiho Ito, Yusuke Kitazawa; June 30, 2008; Osaka, Japan - Video: Nic Greenshields, Gina Beck, Simon Bailey; May 16, 2009; London; Phanasma's master - Video: Howard McGillin, Jennifer Hope Wills, Ryan Silverman; June 25, 2009; Broadway; Howard McGillin's last - Video: John Cudia, Marni Raab, Ryan Silverman; November 17, 2009; Broadway - Video: John Owen-Jones, Celinde Schoenmaker, Nadim Naaman; December 1, 2015; London; cityofemeraldtrading's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; May 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; P. Rose's master - Video: Fred Silveira, Giulia Nadruz, Henrique Moretzsohn; August 2019; Sao Paulo,Brazil; P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; December 14, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; evening, P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Giulia Nadruz, Fred Silveira; December 15, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; last matinee, P. Rose's master - Video: Thiago Arancam, Lina Mendes, Fred Silveira; December 15, 2019; Sao Paulo, Brazil; last performance, P. Rose's master
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2020.09.27 08:13 FearlessStarlight My personal Collection! (In List Form)

Here’s a List of my collection, I collect all kinds of things, not just a specific item type!
I love finding things I don't have or haven't seen before!
If you have any questions I can try my hardest to answer for you and if you want to see any specific item I can post a photo for you! (except most of the folklore merch for obvious reasons lol) Just let me know!
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CD Collection:
Taylor Swift Era:
Albums
Vinyl
Misc…
Fearless Era:
Albums
Singles
Boxsets
Vinyl
CMA Consideration
Misc..
DVDsBluray
Speak Now Era:
Albums
Singles
CMA/ACM Considerations
Speak Now World Tour
Vinyl
Misc…
Red Era:
Albums
Singles
Vinyl
Misc…
1989 Era:
Albums
Singles
Vinyl
Misc…
reputation Era:
Albums
Singles
Cassette
Vinyl
DVDs
Lover Era:
Albums
Singles
Vinyl
Cassette
Folklore Era
Albums
Singles
Vinyl
Cassettes
Shirts/Hoodies/Scarves/Towels/Hats:
Taylor Swift Era:
Fearless Era:
Speak Now Era:
Red Era:
1989 Era:
Reputation Era:
Lover Era:
Folklore Era:
Keds:
Posters:
Notebooks/Journal/Folders:
Big
Small
Composition
Journal
Folders
Pens
Movies:
8x10 Photos/8x10 Magazine Photos:
Meredith, Olivia & Benjamin Collection:
Books:
Bags:
Blankets/Pillows:
Lithographs:
Autographs:
Standees/Advertisements:
Dolls:
Tour Stuff: (other stuff is in other categories)
American Greeting Cards:
Perfume:
Wonderstruck
Wonderstruck Enchanted
Taylor by Taylor Swift
Taylor by Taylor: Made of Starlight
Incredible Things
Calendars:
7x7
12x12
Locker & Planners
Slim Calendars
Bracelets/Necklaces/Rings/Headbands:
Magazines:
Collector Magazines:
Ornaments:
Other Stuff:
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2020.09.27 04:28 YourAverageGuyYT Well, I seem to have found out what's been killing me these past few weeks [TL;DR at the bottom]

Well, the first thing is that I've been real unsure on where I stand in terms of gender and sexuality. But I finally found out. I am a pansexual non-binary person. Once I figured all that garbage out, a little bit of shit was lifted off my mind. I proceeded to tell my bby (girlfriend) so she'd be informed. Luckily for me, she's also pansexual so we're still together. It's actually gotten even better between us cause she felt as if I really trusted her. But anyways, gender aside, that's not the only thing that's been screwing with me.
The next thing are my astronomically bad social skills and low self-esteem. I'm literally afraid of people. I avoid them like the plague and I start to shake a little when people try to talk to me. When authority figures try to talk to me, I shake a lot and I start to tear up. When someone (even someone who's clearly beneath me) gets mad at me, I crumple up into a ball and I start crying. I'm okay at talking to people online. But I'm always so damn scared to send my messages cause I'm scared that I'll just get blocked and/or cussed at. I rarely call anyone who's not my gf, brothers or sisters. I feel real scared when I do. Group calls or voice chats in server? Forget it. I just stay muted and silently wimper, Onto the self esteem, I hate myself. I'm my least favourite person. I suck at pretty much everything. I have no real talents. I make a lot of people sad. I see no reason I deserve to even exist anymore. And most days, I just want to end it all.
Next, I have crippling loneliness. Now, you remember the girl I mentioned in the first paragraph? Well, she's amazing, like seriously the best in the whole damn universe. The problem: She lives 2,000km away behind a sealed border. That's right folks, she lives in America. I live in the frozen Maple Land of Canada. I therefore cannot legally cross the border and go see her. We started dating mid-quarantine and it was fine for a while, but not being able to see her in person has really started taking it's toll on me, my soul and my health. I impatiently yearn for the day I'll get to see her in person. But this fuckin' Chinese virus, it's preventing me from seeing her. Now, if I ever see people who are holding hands, hugging, kissing, or anything like that, I start to feel really sad. Like a really deep, dark hole just opened up inside me. When I read about these things, it's the same effect. It's honestly killing me and I just can't. I really wanna see her. It kills me that I can't.
TL;DR. Bunch of shit making me sad: I just found out what my gender is, I'm shit with people and at life and I can't see my gf in person until this corona bs is over.
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2020.09.26 17:09 CaspianX2 Full list of upcoming games on the Nintendo Switch (US) (Updated 9/26/2020)

Console exclusives (games that are also on PC and/or mobile, but not on other consoles) in Italics. Nintendo exclusives (games that are only on Nintendo platforms) in bold.
For those looking at this list and not sure what's likely to be noteworthy, I have compiled a page with noteworthy releases on Switch for September 2020. Please give them a look if you want to see what games are likely to be some of September's highlights!
Also, a page for noteworthy releases in October is now up! Please look it over!
As for the full list of upcoming games, here you go:
Games Release date Date confirmed by?
Detective Case and Clown Bot in: Murder in The Hotel Lisbon 9/30/20 Nintendo.com
MindSieze 9/30/20 Official Twitter Post
Curved Space September 2020 Official Trailer
Drive Buy September 2020 Official Trailer/Official Twitter Post
Gamer Girl September 2020 Official Trailer (Trailer no longer available)
Calico Summer 2020 Official Website
Eldest Souls (Timed Console Exclusive) Summer 2020 Nintendo.com
Rogue Heroes: Ruins of Tasos Summer 2020 Official Website
Alter Cosmos Q3 2020 Official Website
Counter Terrorist Agency Q3 2020 Official Website
Driftland: The Magic Revival Q3 2020 Official Website (Game no longer listed on website)
Dungeon Defenders Awakened (Timed Exclusive) Q3 2020 Official Twitter Post
Farm Mechanic Simulator Q3 2020 Official Website
Nogunz: Doppelganger Edition Q3 2020 Official Trailer
The Academy: The First Riddle Q3 2020 Official Trailer
Train Mechanic Simulator Q3 2020 Official Website
Candy Raid: The Factory 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Farm Builder 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Hot Shot Burn 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Liege Dragon 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Nubarron: The Adventure of an Unlucky Gnome 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Orangeblood 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Powertris 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Smoots World Cup Tennis 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Red Crow Mysteries: Legion 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Retro Classix Collection #1: Data East 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Super Mario Bros. 35 (Limited Release, Nintendo Switch Online Subscription Required) 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
The Last Days 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Warsaw 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
Ys Origin 10/1/20 Nintendo.com
103 10/2/20 Nintendo.com
Birthday of Midnight 10/2/20 Nintendo.com
Grim Legends 2: Song of the Dark Swan 10/2/20 Nintendo.com
Let's Sing Queen 10/2/20 Nintendo.com
Logic Puzzle Collection: Sudoku - Permudoku - Nonodoku 10/2/20 Nintendo.com
Macbat 64: Journey of a Nice Chap 10/2/20 Nintendo.com
Make a Killing 10/2/20 Nintendo.com
Quell 10/3/20 Nintendo.com
Danger Gazers 10/5/20 Nintendo.com
Space Grunts 10/5/20 Nintendo.com
9th Dawn III 10/6/20 Nintendo.com
Agatha Christie - The ABC Murders 10/6/20 Nintendo.com
Charterstone: Digital Edition 10/6/20 Nintendo.com
From Orbit 10/6/20 Nintendo.com
Foregone 10/6/20 Nintendo.com
Nickelodeon Kart Racers 2 10/6/20 Nintendo.com
Shmubedi Boo 10/7/20 Nintendo.com
Adventures of Chris 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Aery: Sky Castle 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Falcon Age 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Filament 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Game Dev Tycoon 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Green Hell 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Home: Postmortem Edition 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
I Am Dead (Timed Exclusive) 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Ikenfell 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Neighbors Back From Hell 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Piofore: Fated Memories 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Puddle Knights 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Tiki Brawl 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Torn Tales: Rebound Edition 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
WarriOrb 10/8/20 Nintendo.com
Ben 10: Power Trip! 10/9/20 Nintendo.com
FIFA 21 Nintendo Switch Legacy Edition 10/9/20 Nintendo.com
Street Racer Underground 10/9/20 Nintendo.com
The Survivalists 10/9/20 Nintendo.com
GI Joe: Operation Blackout 10/13/20 Nintendo.com
Prinny 1•2: Exploded and Reloaded 10/13/20 Nintendo.com
Prinny: Can I Really Be the Hero? 10/13/20 Nintendo.com
Prinny 2: Dawn of Operation Panties, Dood! 10/13/20 Nintendo.com
Robotics;Notes Double Pack 10/13/20 Official Trailer
Woodsalt 10/13/20 Nintendo.com
Vigil: The Longest Night 10/14/20 Nintendo.com
Alpaca Ball: Allstars 10/15/20 Official Website
Batbarian: Testament of the Primordials 10/15/20 Official Twitter Post
Burst Shooter 10/15/20 Nintendo.com
Castle of No Escape 10/15/20 Nintendo.com
Cloudpunk 10/15/20 Official Trailer
Hardcore Mecha 10/15/20 Nintendo.com
Ring of Pain 10/15/20 Official Trailer
Shantae: Risky's Revenge - Director's Cut 10/15/20 Official Twitter Post
Shoot 1UP DX 10/15/20 Nintendo.com
Space Crew 10/15/20 Official Trailer
The Jackbox Party Pack 7 10/15/20 Nintendo.com
This is the Zodiac Speaking 10/15/20 Nintendo.com
9 Monkeys of Shaolin 10/16/20 Nintendo.com
Crown Trick 10/16/20 Official Website
Mario Kart Live: Home Circuit 10/16/20 Super Mario Bros. 35th Anniversary Direct
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(Note: TBA Dates and Missed Release Dates in comments)
I miss anything? Mis-marked exclusivity? Have an official source with updated info? Let me know!
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2020.09.26 09:44 finnagains The First 'Dune' Trailer - by Trevor Lynch • 24 Sept 2020

Dune Trailer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2GZm2TAQNY&feature=emb_title
If movies can have previews, why can’t movie critics release “pre-reviews”? I ask because September 9th was the release date of the first trailer for the first half of Denis Villeneuve’s adaptation of Frank Herbert’s Dune.
Dune is one of the most-anticipated movies of 2020. Trailers can build up a lot of excitement for a film, but they are immediately forgotten when the movie actually appears. Yet due to COVID-19, there is a real chance that more people will see the movie’s trailer online than will see the actual film in theaters when it is released in December, and it may take months before the film is released on video and streaming services. Until that time, this and any subsequent trailers will eclipse the film itself.
Hence this little experiment. I want to prereview Dune based on the first trailer, plus other information gleaned from interviews and promotional materials. When (and if) you see the film, you can judge my prereview for prescience.
Any Dune adaptation is highly significant, because the novel is one of the great works of twentieth-century popular fiction, straddling both the sci-fi and fantasy genres. First published in 1965, Dune inspired legions of fans. Herbert wrote five sequels, and after his death his son Brian Herbert, together with Kevin J. Anderson, wrote more than a dozen Dune universe books, none of which I have read.
This movie is also significant because Dune has already inspired a series of screen adaptations. The first was by Alejandro Jodorowsky, which was highly influential even though it was never filmed. David Lynch’s 1984 Dune belongs in the category of great flawed films. In 2000, the Sci-Fi Channel did a four-and-a-half-hour, three-part Dune miniseries, which I thought was pretty bad, although its sequel, the Children of Dune miniseries (2003) is surprisingly good.
Dune also inspired screen homages and rip offs, most notably the vast Star Wars “franchise”—which is what the movie industry calls a “mythos.”
Beyond that, a Dune adaptation is politically important because, as I have argued in “Archaeofuturist Fiction: Frank Herbert’s Dune,” , Herbert’s vision is deeply reactionary, anti-modernist, and anti-liberal—and for quite compelling reasons.
Based on his movies Sicario, Arrival, and Blade Runner 2049, Denis Villeneuve is a highly talented director of both science fiction and action films. Thus he was a good choice to direct Dune. But will Dune be a good movie? Will it be better than the Lynch or the Sci-Fi Channel’s versions? (Yes, the Sci-Fi Channel adaptation was inferior to Lynch, but it included plot elements omitted by Lynch but not by Villeneuve, so it is reasonable to compare the two.) Will Villeneuve’s film bear any relation to Jodorowsky’s Dune? This three minute, five second trailer contains many clues.
Perhaps the chief flaw of Lynch’s Dune are the clunky special effects. The Sci-Fi Channel version’s effects also look cheap. Based on the trailer and Villeneuve’s other science fiction efforts, this adaptation beats the rivals easily in this department. But this is largely due to advances in technology. The big question is whether Villeneuve’s use of the new technology be tasteful or vulgar. Based on the trailer, I can’t yet decide. Aside from the sandworms, most of the effects in the trailer are static images that give one a sense of the design of vessels. But the test of effects is how well they move.
Another flaw of Lynch’s Dune was a lack of grand landscape photography, especially on the watery world of Caladan and the desert planet of Arrakis. Lynch mostly used models without much context. Fortunately, the trailer shows us glimpses of dramatic vistas on both planets. Another flaw of Lynch’s Arrakis is that many of the scenes, even in the desert, are dark, gloomy, and ugly. Deserts are beautiful places, but you’d never know that from the Lynch film. Unfortunately, based on the new trailer, Villeneuve’s Arrakis is almost as dark and ugly as Lynch’s.
Villeneuve’s movie dramatizes the first half of the Dune novel. The setting is more than 20,000 years in the future. Mankind has colonized the entire galaxy. No other intelligent life forms have been found. Because of the great distances between planets and the high cost of space travel, the political order is feudal. Noble houses (Dukes, Counts, Barons) rule entire planets, all of them subordinated to the Padishah Emperor on far-off Kaitain.
In addition to the noble houses, the other major powers are secretive initiatic societies dedicated to the development of human capacities.
The Spacing Guild has developed higher mathematics and prescience to traverse space.
The Bene Tleilax brotherhood, who are Sufis, has developed mnemonics and to create “mentats” (human computers, because artificial intelligence is religiously prohibited), yogic superpowers that allow them to shift shapes, and genetic engineering techniques.
The Bene Gesserit sisterhood has developed skills in martial arts (the Weirding Way), memory sharing, hyper-observation and abductive reasoning, seduction and sex, religious and political deception, and eugenics.
Nobody knows what their ultimate goal is, but their proximal goal—which they are nearing—is breeding a superman, the Kwisatz Haderach (shortener of the way), a Janus-like figure who will be able to access all of his ancestors’ memories as well as presciently peer into the future.
The most valuable resource in the universe is the so-called spice mélange, harvested from the sands of Arrakis, also known as Dune. The spice extends life but also expands the mind, thus it is used by the Guild, Tleilaxu, and Bene Gesserit in all their schemes to transcend the human condition.
The plot of Dune centers on the struggle of two noble houses, the Atreides and the Harkonnen, for control of Arrakis. But this is no normal aristocratic feud, because the most precious resource in the universe is at stake, and one of the players, Paul Atreides, the fourteen-year-old heir to Arrakis, may well be the Kwisatz Haderach the sisterhood has been searching for.
In the trailer the two primary characters are Paul Atreides, (played by Timothée Chalamet) and the Bene Gesserit Reverend Mother Gaius Helen Mohiam (Charlotte Rampling), who has come to test Paul’s powers on the eve of the Atreides’ departure to take control of Arrakis. Their scene and bits of dialogue from it are intercut with flashes of events to come as the Atreides are attacked on Arrakis by the Harkonnen. Paul and his mother are forced to flee to the desert, where they take refuge with the Fremen, the indigenous people of Arrakis.
I wasn’t thrilled when I heard that Chalamet was cast as Paul. He does not look as good as Lynch’s Kyle MacLachlan or the Sci-Fi Channel’s Alec Newman. He looks too delicate for the action sequences. But it is difficult to find an actor who can pass for a teenager and handle the role. Judging from the trailer, however, Chalamet has some steel in him. He will probably do the character credit.
One of the best sequences in Lynch’s film is when the Reverend Mother tests Paul with “the box.” We see glimpses of this in the trailer. Lynch’s Reverend Mother was played beautifully by Siân Phillips. In the Sci-Fi series, she was played by a Czech actress, Zuzana Geislerová, who would have been forgettable if her stupid hats and heavy accent had not made her ridiculous. (She was much better in Children of Dune.) Based on the trailer, Rampling has poise and a great voice. She will do justice to the role.
The only other character in the trailer with significant lines is Duncan Idaho. (Baron Harkonnen and Chani have just a few words.) Although Idaho is a very important character, especially in the subsequent books, Lynch’s adaptation left little room for Idaho, who was played by Richard Jordan. In the Sci-Fi miniseries, he was played by the forgettable James Watson. (In Children of Dune he was memorably played by Edward Atterton.) Villeneuve has cast the half-Hawaiian bodybuildeaction hero Jason Momoa to play Idaho.
Momoa is a very good choice. The first half of Dune contains a number of flight and fight scenes featuring Idaho that were cut by Lynch. These will make excellent action sequences, so Momoa with his heroic physique and martial arts skills will shine in them. As for Momoa’s mixed race ancestry: Duncan Idaho is really the only character in Dune who is described as not being white. “Idaho” is an American Indian name, and the character is described as having high cheekbones, a somewhat flat face, and dark, wavy hair like a karakul sheep. Momoa actually looks the part.
Oscar Isaac plays Duke Leto Atreides. This is actually a better choice than Lynch’s Jürgen Prochnow and Sci-Fi’s William Hurt, since the Atreides are supposed to have a Mediterranean look (brunette, aquiline noses) and descend from the ancient Greek house of Atreus. Isaac, who is of Cuban, Guatemalan, and French ancestry, looks the part. Chalamet, who is half-French, half-Jewish, does so as well.
A beautiful Scottish-Swedish actress, Rebecca Ferguson, plays Lady Jessica, Paul’s mother. She looks good, but not as good as Francesca Annis in Lynch’s film. Saskia Reeves in the Sci-Fi series was too earthy. Alice Kriege (the Borg Queen) was, however, utterly regal in Children of Dune.
Just as Kyle MacLachlan looked like he could have been the child of Jürgen Prochnow and Francesca Annis, Chalamet looks like he could be the son of Isaac and Ferguson.
Josh Brolin is a great choice for Gurney Halleck, the Atreides weapons master, who was memorably played by Patrick Steward in Lynch’s film.
I can’t complain about Villeneuve casting a Chinaman to play the traitor, Dr. Wellington Yueh, even though he was not described as oriental. Thufir Hawat, the Atreides mentat and Master of Assassins, is played by Stephen McKinley Henderson, who has some black ancestry, but who looks quite white. So even this choice doesn’t really stray from Herbert’s vision.
As for the Harkonnens: Swedish actor Stellan Skarsgård plays the mad Baron, Vladimir Harkonnen. Dave Bautista plays his brutish nephew Glossu Rabban. Bautista is part Philippino, but is in whiteface. The Baron’s nephew, Feyd Rautha, does not appear in this movie. David Dastmalchian plays the Harkonnens’ twisted mentat Piter De Vries. With his Armenian, Iranian, and European ancestry, Dastmalchian is a strange looking guy and inspired casting for this role, which was memorably played by Brad Dourif in the Lynch film.
The Fremen leader Stigar is played by Javier Bardem. He’s a great actor and will be the best Stilgar yet, although Steven Berkoff was outstanding in Children of Dune.
Unfortunately, at this point Villeneuve’s casting goes completely off the rails.
The character of the Imperial Planetologist, Dr. Liet Kynes, is described by Herbert as a natural leader of astonishing nobility as well as a scientific genius. He was memorably portrayed by Max von Sydow in Lynch’s film. Villeneuve has decided to cast Kynes as a very black woman (Sharon Duncan-Brewster).
This is such outrageous political correctness that Villeneuve claimed that it was necessitated by his choice of a mulatto actress, Zendaya, to play Liet’s daughter Chani, who becomes Paul’s love interest.
This argument is complete nonsense, however, since Zendaya presumably had a white male parent, so there was no need other than blatant racial appropriation to change Kynes’ sex and race. And, of course, it is also racial appropriation to cast his daughter as a mulatto.
But it gets worse. Villeneuve casts two other Fremen with black actors as well. Harah, the wife of Stilgar, is played by Gloria Obianyo. Jamis, who fights with Paul and is killed, is played by Babs Olusanmokun.
This is a very bad sign, for it seems likely that Villeneuve wishes to portray the Fremen, who are the good guys, as primarily non-white. Given that their enemies, the Harkonnens, are depicted with shaved heads and conspicuously white skin, Villeneuve is turning Dune into an anti-white race-war prosecuted by non-whites and white race-mixers (Paul, Stilgar). This isn’t Frank Herbert’s Dune. Like every other piece of mainstream entertainment, Villeneuve’s Dune is just another version of the White Genocide script.
The fact that America has been convulsed for four months by people LARPing the same script is producing a great deal of fatigue for blacks and their white saviors. If COVID does not turn audiences away in droves, this blackface desecration of Herbert’s vision just might. In the past, I could overlook this kind of casting if other parts of the story were good. I don’t think I can do that anymore. This isn’t a game. Our race and civilization are dying, and the politicians, journalists, activists, and artists who are promoting the Great Replacement are simply evil. Denis Villeneuve has desecrated Dune. This movie deserves to bomb as badly as Disney’s Star Wars.
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2020.09.26 09:07 terrabrand [22M] Is this picnic we arranged considered a date?

Tomorrow, I am meeting this girl [F21] I met at a mutual friend's party and had deep conversations while being super drunk. I didn't remember much other than she sent a friend request on Facebook the next day. 6 months later during online classes, she noticed my name on the roster and talked with me. We decided to work together in our cybersecurity class alongside with my other friends. We then went out to get Boba Tea with my roommates (all women) last Friday and seemed to have a good time (don't worry, we all tested negative recently).
Later, we talked about how much fun we had and she asked if I wanted to do something next week? I made random suggestions and she agreed on a picnic. We just finished making our own food that we plan on bringing, though she didn't want any wine because she has to go to her part-time job on Sunday around noon. But I am curious, is this considered a date? I do think she is cute, but I understand dating is difficult during these circumstances in America. Also, my friends told me it is a date because it was a picnic, which implies a romantic gesture. What do you guys think?
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2020.09.26 08:48 Chetdizzy Flashback: New Years Eve 2020

To celebrate New Years 2020, Donald Trump had “America’s #1 Event Band” play his annual gala. During this particular one, the “Novel Coronavirus” [Definition: New Crownvirus] infected China, its death count now tracked similarly to how we streamed performance online at my old hedge fund; I was a compliance officer.
When I think of the love/hate nature of the Ten Commandments, and I note the daily “New Crownvirus” death toll, I understand why I am one of two witnesses:
And I saw, and behold a white horse: and he that sat on him had a bow; and a crown was given unto him: and he went forth conquering, and to conquer.
My white horse is cocaine, and my crown has been Sept. 23, 2017. Your white horse may be this book, but everyone’s new crown is the Novel Coronavirus. Together, they pose a question to all human beings: Inferno or Paradise?
[Image: “Last Update: February 14, 2020 Novel Dead: 1,486 Novel Living: 1 Deadline: July 20, 2020”]
If you remember the nine steps we just reviewed, you’ll understand why new plagues are needed to raise the Novel Living figure. To overcome, you must know a version of, “Without realizing it, I mixed thought-screening with the belief that I had only months to live, beginning to fulfill the verse: the dead in Christ shall rise first.”
The day I received pixelation, a deal was brokered in heaven. I am to witness and report each “new crown”, or plague, transparently to the world in whatever form it may take. This book is, for lack of a better term, a compliance manual, open to public audit as it calls all believers to create new stories of their paths to heaven. Doing so expands the manual.
[Excerpt: Ch. 19, Deal of the Millennium]
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—And he gathered them together into a place in called in the Hebrew tongue Armageddon—
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2020.09.26 08:09 AdequateSizeAttache Setting the Record Straight on the Evidence of Prior Sexual Abuse - Part 1

[This post has been split into two parts because of selfpost character limits.]

Introduction

It surprises me how often I see discussions involving speculation on whether JonBenet's UTIs, vaginitis, bedwetting, and history of frequent doctor visits indicate sexual abuse or not. These discussions invariably include people chiming in to share how they or someone they know had similar issues but were never abused. From these discussions, one could get the impression that itchy pageant costumes or Mr. Bubble useage are perfectly reasonable explanations for the evidence of sexual abuse.
The fact is, there's no need to speculate based on these things. There is physical evidence of prior sexual abuse. This is the evidence that should be at the forefront of discussions on the question of sexual abuse, not bubble baths or bedwetting. Issues such as vaginitis, UTIs, and bedwetting are not specific to sexual abuse; there are other possible explanations for them. There is no other possible explanation for the physical evidence besides trauma from physical penetration.
In reading discussions on the case over the years, it's always puzzled me how often the evidence of prior sexual abuse gets downplayed or dismissed. In considering why, I believe it is due primarily to these two common misconceptions:
Common Misconception 1 (as demonstrated above): The evidence of sexual abuse = vaginal irritation, UTIs, rashes, bedwetting, soiling, frequent doctor visits
Common Misconception 2: There is a medical debate on the issue and there's evidence to support both sides
Common Misconception 1 is a straw man argument — the actual evidence (the physical findings) is not being addressed or refuted.
Common Misconception 2 is an argument from false equivalence. An equal, rather than accurate, amount of weight is given to both sides of the issue. People see the mountain of conflicting information and contradicting opinions and think "It looks like expert opinion on this issue is divided; I guess a case can be made for either side." The enormous difference in expertise and experience between the various experts is ignored, as is the level of access they had to the evidence. This misconception gives the impression that all these expert opinions cancel each other out, rendering the issue debatable and open to interpretation. Consequently, the probative value of the evidence is undermined, making it easier for people to feel they can dismiss.
I think several factors have contributed to these two misconceptions:
However, if one takes a closer look at the evidence, it becomes apparent that it is not weighted equally on both sides. There is no medical debate, but a medical consensus. Every child sexual abuse expert who examined the genital findings from JonBenet's autopsy recognized physical signs of sexual abuse that predated her murder. Despite some objections to their conclusion, no one has disputed the physical findings of these experts. Their findings are compelling and should be seriously considered. In order to do that, though, one must first understand what the findings are and get acquainted with the doctors who testified to them.
The purpose of this post is to lay out everything that is known about the evidence of prior sexual abuse, but also to put it into a larger context so that hopefully it will be better understood. This will involve delving a bit into the history of child sexual abuse evaluations (it will become relevant later), as well as some background information of the experts involved. I will also go over dissenting opinions and address some common counterarguments and myths.

The evolution of modern pediatric sexual abuse evaluations: A brief historical timeline

1857 - One of the first known forensic medical studies on child sexual abuse, Étude médico-légale sur les attentats aux mœurs (Forensic study on offenses against morals) by French medical doctor and pathologist Auguste Ambroise Tardieu, is published. This treatise describes various forms of child abuse and maltreatment and includes anatomical drawings of genital findings which by modern standards are considered surprisingly accurate and ahead of its time. For some reason these efforts are largely ignored and it will be over a century before interest in sexual abuse evaluations from a medical perspective is resurrected.
1940s-50s - Child sexual abuse remains an unacknowledged taboo. Medical textbooks of this era tell doctors that children can contract STIs like gonorrhea from non-sexual means, such as from toilet seats, sharing towels, or sleeping in the same bed as an infected adult. Such myths will pervade for decades.
1962 - "The Battered Child Syndrome" by pediatrician C. Henry Kempe is published and physical child abuse is recognized. A watershed moment in pediatrics and child abuse protection. This article is about detecting hidden signs of physical abuse using modern radiological technology and newly proposed evaluation guidelines. Detecting chronic or hidden sexual abuse, however, will prove to be a more enduring challenge.
Late 1960s - By now all 50 states have child abuse protection laws in place.
1970s - Feminist campaigners and policymakers take up the cause of child sexual abuse. Most child protection workers during this period are social workers and therapists. The field of child abuse protection and evaluation is in its nascency.
1974 - Congress enacts the Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA, P.L. 93-247). CAPTA creates a nationwide focus on establishing standardized protocols for dealing with all forms of child abuse and neglect. Mandatory reporting is one component of CAPTA. Before, only doctors were required to report cases of suspected child abuse; now, it is anyone in a position of authority — teachers, camp counselors, etc. Consequently, there is a significant increase in the reporting of child abuse cases and an increase in the demand of evaluations for suspected sexual abuse. Most of the physicians doing these medical evaluations are not researchers or academics but work with prosecutor's offices and law enforcement.
1975 - Suzanne M. Sgroi, physician pioneer in the field, publishes an article calling child sexual abuse "the last frontier in child abuse" which "remains a taboo topic in many areas."
1977 - C. Henry Kempe brings awareness to the issue of child sexual abuse by following up "The Battered Child Syndrome" with a landmark lecture at the Annual Meeting of the American Academy of Pediatrics in New York City. The talk, titled "Sexual Abuse, Another Hidden Pediatric Problem" is published in the journal Pediatrics the following year.
1980s - Doctors start examining children's genitals, documenting, cataloging and trying to interpret their findings. Some use a colposcope, a binocular-like instrument originally used to detect cervical cancer, which magnifies the vaginal canal and tissues up to 4-30x. Some take anatomical measurements which they use to develop criteria for suspected abuse. They know what findings they see in abused children, but there is an acute lack of understanding of what "normal" or nonabused genital findings look like.
1981 - The article "Sexual Misuse: Rape, Molestation, and Incest" by Dr. Bruce Woodling is published in the journal Pediatric Clinics of North America.
Dr. Woodling is a California physician whose area of specialty is in sexual abuse forensics. The paper presents his research on what he has dubbed the "wink response test", a concept borrowed from Tardieu's 19th-century forensic manual. This test involves stroking the area near the anus with a cotton swab and gauging the response — contraction of the sphincter indicates no abuse, while an involuntary opening or 'winking' response indicates prior penetration. It was a test Tardieu developed to diagnose pederasty and Woodling has applied it to children as a way to detect anal abuse.
1982 - The wave of daycare sexual abuse hysteria of the 80s begins with the Kern County abuse allegations. The investigation and trial will culminate in the conviction of two couples (the McCuans and Kniffens) for sexually abusing several children. Dr. Woodling's wink response test and testimony play a part in their conviction. Several other similar cases in the same area at the time result in convictions of several others.
1984 - Daycare abuse hysteria continues with the Fells Acres and McMartin Preschool accusations. In the Fells Acre case, day care teacher Gerald Amirault will be put on trial and convicted of sexually assaulting and raping nine children. Questionable interview methods of the children and unproven genital evaluation criteria form the basis for the conviction.
The McMartin preschool case is the first to receive major media attention in the United States. Pediatrician Astrid Heger, under the tutelage of Dr. Bruce Woodling, conducts many of the evaluations of the McMartin children and diagnoses the majority of them as having been sexually abused. The criteria used for the evaluations are based primarily on Woodling's research as well as other published papers at the time (e.g., Cantwell's 1983 study on hymenal diameter measurements). Many of the children are found to have suspect genital findings such as notches, clefts, bands, tissue tags, ruffled or rolled hymenal edges, 'microtraumas' seen only with magnification, hymenal openings which measure over four millimeters, as well as positive reactions to Woodling's wink response test.
mid to late 80s - More abuse allegations and convictions including Country Walk, Wee Nursery, Bronx Five, Little Rascals day care, Glendale Montessori cases.
1988 - Dr. John McCann, a pediatrics professor and researcher from UCSF School of Medicine, drops a bombshell at the 18th annual child abuse convention in San Diego. He presents the results of a study he and his colleagues have worked on the past four years. They had gathered a control group of about 300 nonabused/"normal" children and meticulously documented and photographed their anuses and genitals, the first such study to do so. What they learned shocked McCann and everyone else in the field. Many of the anatomic findings which some specialists were claiming to be signs of abuse were commonly found in the nonabused children. The study showed that the large variation of anatomical features of childrens' genitals were, in fact, just that — variations of normal. This meant that parents and caretakers were being reported and convicted based on erroneous unscientific criteria. This presentation, titled "Anatomical Standardization of Normal Prepubertal Children," is a watershed moment in the field.
1989 - The first paper based on McCann's study ("Perianal findings in prepubertal children selected for nonabuse: a descriptive study") is published in the journal Child Abuse & Neglect. Among its conclusions, it shows that Dr. Woodling's wink response test has no scientific basis.
The impact of McCann's study influences leaders in the field to call for an overhaul in the way sexual abuse evaluation criteria are approached:
Medical Examination for Sexual Abuse: Have We Been Misled?
The more we learn, the less we know "with reasonable medical certainty"?
1990s - This decade sees an explosion of research and progress. The second paper based on McCanns' landmark study ("Genital findings in prepubertal girls selected for nonabuse: a descriptive study") is published in the journal Pediatrics in 1990. The dropping of charges in the McMartin preschool trial, also in 1990, marks the beginning of the winding down of the nation's abuse hysteria. McCann's research is presented as evidence by the defense in some abuse trials, such as the McMartin and Little Rascals daycare cases.
1992 - A classification system for evaluating children for suspected sexual abuse is proposed by Dr. Joyce Adams, Katherine Harper and Sandra Knudson. This later becomes known as the Adams classification system (keep this system in mind as we will be referring back to it) and will be periodically revised with updated criteria throughout the following decades. It will be adopted and used in the field of child abuse pediatrics and gynecology worldwide. John McCann's research help form a basis for this system.
mid to late 90s - More research based on cross-sectional, case-control, and longitudinal studies of abused and nonabused children are published which improves understanding and accuracy of evaluation criteria: Berenson, Heger, Adams, Emans, Kellogg, Kerns, McCann, Muram, Finkel, etc. Due to the errors of the previous decade, specialists in the field are highly conscientious and prudent about differentiating nonabuse from abuse criteria.

The evidence of prior sexual abuse in the JonBenet Ramsey case: What we know

When Boulder County Coroner Dr. John Meyer performed JonBenet's autopsy, he identified signs of acute vaginal trauma which he believed was consistent with digital penetration. What we didn't find out until the publication of James Kolar's book Foreign Faction in 2012 is that Dr. Meyer also saw indications of prior sexual contact. Concerned about this possibility, he sought a specialist opinion and brought Dr. Andrew Sirotnak to the morgue to examine JonBenet's genital injuries. Dr. Sirotnak was a child abuse pediatrician who headed the Child Protection Team at Children's Hospital Colorado. He confirmed Meyer's opinion that there were signs of prior sexual contact.
Here are the relevant passages from Kolar's book:
  • Dr. Meyer also observed signs of chronic inflammation around the vaginal orifice and believed that these injuries had been inflicted in the days or weeks before the acute injury that was responsible for causing the bleeding at the time of her death. This irritation appeared consistent with prior sexual contact.
    [Foreign Faction: Who Really Kidnapped JonBenet?, A. James Kolar, p. 58]
  • Following the meeting, Dr. Meyer returned to the morgue with Dr. Andy Sirontak, Chief of Denver Children's Hospital Child Protection Team, so that a second opinion could be rendered on the injuries observed to the vaginal area of JonBenet. He would observe the same injuries that Dr. Meyer had noted during the autopsy protocol and concurred that a foreign object had been inserted into the opening of JonBenet's vaginal orifice and was responsible for the acute injury witnessed at the 7:00 o'clock position. Further inspection revealed that the hymen was shriveled and retracted, a sign that JonBenet had been subjected to some type of sexual contact prior to the date of her death. Dr. Sirontak could not provide an opinion as to how old those injuries were or how many times JonBenet may have been assaulted and would defer to the expert opinions of other medical examiners.
    [Kolar, p. 61]
  • Dr. Meyer was concerned about JonBenet's vaginal injuries, and he, along with Boulder investigators, sought the opinions of a variety of other physicians in the days following her autopsy. Dr. Sirontak, a pediatrician with Denver Children's Hospital, had recognized signs of prior sexual trauma but neither he nor Dr. Meyer were able to say with any degree of certainty what period of time may have been involved in the abuse.
    [Kolar, p. 63]
Boulder Police would later ask several child sexual abuse experts to review the autopsy findings* in order to help them determine if there was evidence of prior sexual abuse. In addition to Andrew Sirotnak, these are the experts whom we know were consulted:
Richard Krugman
James Monteleone
Valerie Rao
John McCann
That's right — that John McCann. The same John McCann who was responsible for putting child sexual abuse evaluations onto scientific footing and who happened to establish the standards for what is considered normal and abnormal in pediatric genital exams was consulted on the JonBenet Ramsey case.
In Steve Thomas's 2001 deposition for the Wolf v Ramsey civil trial, Thomas says that McCann came recommended by the FBI. There's a reason for that, which is that McCann was regarded as one of the the foremost authorities on interpreting pediatric anogenital findings in cases of suspected abuse. Thomas also refers to McCann, Monteleone, and Rao as the "blue ribbon pediatric panel." Based on various sources, we know that there was at least one meeting in Boulder in September 1997 involving McCann, Rao, Monteleone, and Krugman.
Here is the relevant passage from Thomas's book:
In mid-September, a panel of pediatric experts from around the country reached one of the major conclusions of the investigation - that JonBenet had suffered vaginal trauma prior to the day she was killed.
There were no dissenting opinions among them on the issue, and they firmly rejected any possibility that the trauma to the hymen and chronic vaginal inflammation were caused by urination issues or masturbation. We gathered affidavits stating in clear language that there were injuries "consistent with prior trauma and sexual abuse"...."There was chronic abuse"..."Past violation of the vagina"...."Evidence of both acute injury and chronic sexual abuse." In other words, the doctors were saying it had happened before.
...
The results, however, were not what is known in the legal world as "conclusive" - which means that there can be no other interpretation - and I would fully expect defense lawyers to argue something different. Nevertheless, our highly qualified doctors had brought in a remarkable finding.
[JonBenet: Inside the Ramsey Murder Investigation, Steve Thomas & Don Davis, p. 253]
The experts expected to testify in court had the case gone to trial. As we know, there was no criminal trial, but we know the experts were called to testify before the grand jury.
*During JonBenet's autopsy, an instrument called a colposcope was used to examine and document her genital injuries. This is standard procedure in forensic pathology in cases of suspected child abuse or sexual assault. Colposcopy illuminates and magnifies the vaginal cavity and is used to identify abnormal changes to tissue and the internal genital structures. The experts would have relied on these colposcopic photos as well as histologic samples of JonBenet's vaginal mucosa in addition to the autopsy report, coroner's notes, and lab results.

The physical findings explained

These are the genital findings we know were discovered at JonBenet's autopsy:
Ref. no. Finding Source
1 Chronic inflammation around vaginal orifice FF
2 Small amount of dried blood on perineum AR
3 Small amount of dried and semifluid blood on skin of fourchette and in vestibule AR
4 Hyperemia of vestibule and vaginal wall AR
5 Abrasion on hymenal orifice at 7 o'clock position, involving the hymen and vaginal wall AR
6 Epithelial erosion with underlying capillary congestion of tissue from 7'oclock AR
7 Hymenal orifice measuring 1cm x 1cm AR
8 A lack of hymenal tissue between the 10 and 2 o'clock positions AR
9 Vascular congestion and focal interstitial chronic inflammation of vaginal mucosa AR
10 Bruise on hymen BP
11 Three dimensional thickening from inside to outside of inferior hymenal rim BP
12 Narrowing of inferior hymenal rim to base of hymen BP
13 Exposure of vaginal rugae BP
AR = Autopsy Report
BP = Bonita Papers
FF = Foreign Faction
What do these physical findings mean?
Here is a quick break down:
  • 5, 6, and 10, with corresponding bleeding 2 and 3, are signs of acute trauma from the time of the murder.
  • 7 is something that gets brought up as evidence of prior abuse ("enlarged hymenal opening"). However, criteria based on hymenal opening measurements were removed from the Adams classification guidelines in 1996. McCann did not include it in his criteria for abuse, but said it supported the findings for abuse. Since the late 90s/early 2000s, specialists have tried to move away from using measurement-based criteria as it is difficult to do precisely. Research data has shown that measurements can vary with the examination position, technique, age of the child, state of relaxation of the child, and the skill of the examiner.
  • 8 describes a crescentic hymen, a common variation of hymen types. This is a normal finding. Generally, discrepancies of the anterior half of the hymen (above the 3 and 9 o'clock positions) are not considered concerning and missing segments, notches, clefts can be normal findings. It is the inferior half of the hymen (below the 3 and 9 o'clock positions) where experts look for indicators of abuse.
  • 11-13 are findings observed by John McCann that describe structural changes of the hymen from a prior penetration. 12 describes a transection (a healed laceration) of the inferior portion of the hymen.
  • 1, 4, 9 can be caused by a variety of other conditions and on their own are not classified as indicators for abuse. In the case where findings indicating abuse are also present, they need to be considered in context.
McCann's findings
The most important of these findings to understand is 12, which is one of McCann's observations outlined in the Bonita Papers.
There was a three dimensional thickening from inside to outside on the inferior hymeneal rim with a bruise apparent on the external surface of the hymen and a narrowing of the hymeneal rim from the edge of the hymen to where it attaches to the muscular portion of the vaginal openings. At the narrowing area, there appeared to be very little if any hymen present.
To understand what this means, take a look at the white line segment labeled "Hymenal width" in this colposcopic photo (warning: image of vagina/hymen). It demarcates the length of the hymenal membrane from the rim/edge to the base where it attaches to the vaginal wall.
A narrowing of the hymenal rim means the hymenal membrane is reduced in dimension from the rim/edge toward the base. When the rim is narrowed all the way to the base, that is called a complete cleft or a transection. A transection is a discontinuity of the inferior hymenal rim that extends to or through the base of the hymen. Basically, it is a telltale residual absence of tissue from a healed complete laceration.
If this is difficult to visualize, here is a figure which shows what transections look like:
Figure 3: Hymenal Membrane Characteristics
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The Adams classification system
In the fields of child abuse pediatrics and pediatric gynecology, the set of guidelines most widely used in interpreting genital findings is the Adams classification system.
If we were to look at the most recently revised version (2018), we would see that it identifies certain "findings caused by trauma":
These findings are highly suggestive of abuse, even in the absence of a disclosure from the child, unless the child and/or caretaker provides a timely and plausible description of accidental anogenital straddle, crush or impalement injury, or past surgical interventions that are confirmed from review of medical records.
Among those findings that are "highly suggestive of abuse" includes point 37, listed in the subsection titled "Residual (healing) injuries to genital/anal tissues" under section E:
Healed hymenal transection/complete hymen cleft, a defect in the hymen below the 3-9 o'clock location that extends to or through the base of the hymen, with no hymenal tissue discernible at that location
This is precisely what Dr. McCann described having observed in JonBenet.
A transection in the inferior half of the hymen of a prepubertal child is a significant finding because it is considered a clear indication of a prior penetrating injury:
  • Multiple studies have noted the presence of hymenal transections only in prepubertal girls with a history of disclosed sexual abuse.
    [ Sara T. Stewart, MD. Hymenal Characteristics in Girls with and without a History of Sexual Abuse, p. 533]
  • Hymenal transections are very rarely seen in prepubertal girls who have not been sexually abused. However, a demonstrated transection, based on multiple studies, is commonly viewed as “a clear but uncommon indicator of past trauma.”
    [Mishori, R., Ferdowsian, H., Naimer, K. et al. The little tissue that couldn’t – dispelling myths about the Hymen’s role in determining sexual history and assault.]
  • Thus a deep notch, transection, or perforation on the inferior portion of the hymen may be considered as a definitive sign of sexual abuse or other trauma.
    [Berenson, et al. A case-control study of anatomic changes resulting from sexual abuse, p. 829]
  • A transection of the posterior hymen between 4 and 8 o’clock in prepubertal girls suggests genital penetrating trauma; however, the presence of this finding is not confirmatory of sexual abuse. Posterior hymenal findings including transections between 4 and 8 o’clock, deep notches, and perforations were not seen in studies of prepubertal girls without a history of genital trauma from sexual abuse included in this systematic review. Therefore, one can conclude that the posterior hymenal findings of transections, deep notches, and perforations are extremely infrequent findings among children without a history of genital trauma from sexual abuse or other means. [...]
    However, because the prevalence of posterior hymenal findings (between 4 and 8 o’clock) such as transections, deep notches, and perforations are near zero in nonabused prepubertal girls, the presence of these examination findings suggests genital trauma from sexual abuse. In the absence of known genital trauma from accidental means, the possibility for sexual abuse must be strongly considered. In a prepubertal girl with a posterior hymenal finding of a transection (between 4 and 8 o’clock), a deep notch (between 4 and 8 o’clock), or a perforation, a report to child protective services should be strongly considered. At a minimum, an examination by a child abuse specialist should occur to confirm these findings and to help provide a careful interpretation regarding the likelihood of sexual abuse.
    [Molly Curtin Berkoff, MD, MPH; Adam J. Zolotor, MD, MPH; Kathi L. Makoroff, MD; et al. Has This Prepubertal Girl Been Sexually Abused?, p. 2790]
If any doctor or medical provider today observed a transection on the inferior half of the hymen of a prepubertal female patient, he/she would be required to make a report for suspected sexual abuse and an explanation would be required for how that healed injury got there. In forty years of research, this finding has not been seen in any other instance besides from penetrating trauma. In prepubertal girls, it is indicative of sexual abuse unless it can be shown otherwise.

What the evidence says

The evidence says JonBenet had been subjected to at least one penetration of the vagina through the hymenal membrane prior to her murder. The penetration caused a complete laceration of the inferior hymenal membrane. After the laceration healed, a transection and other structural changes of the hymen remained.
The age of the prior injury could not be determined, but based on his research on the healing of hymenal lacerations of prepubertal girls, it was McCann's opinion that it was more than ten days old. His research has shown that "most signs of an acute [hymenal laceration] injury were gone within 7 to 10 days." Some of the experts thought the prior injury could have been weeks or months old.
While the evidence could conclusively prove only one prior penetration, the experts believed there had been more than one instance of penetration/sexual contact and that JonBenet's genital findings indicated abuse that had been repeated or ongoing. They were unable to determine how many incidents over what period of time.
Four of the five experts (Sirotnak, Monteleone, Rao, McCann) were confident in their opinion that JonBenet's genital findings were diagnostic of sexual abuse. One (Krugman) could not disagree with that assessment, but lacking certain forensic evidence (i.e., the victim's testimony, the confirmed presence of sperm, or an STI), was unwilling to assume a sexual motive for the abuse. He felt there was evidence only of physical abuse of the genitals.

What else could explain the prior penetration/ hymenal trauma besides sexual abuse?

There are three known causes of transections in the inferior hymenal rim in prepubertal girls — penetrative sexual abuse, accidental penetrating trauma, and surgical intervention.
Most accidental genital injuries sustained by children are straddle-type injuries that involve a fall onto the horizontal bar of a bicycle, jungle gym, or picket fence. This type of accident involves compression of the soft tissues against the bony margins of the pelvic outlet. Trauma is usually limited to the external structures of the genital area (e.g., labia, clitoral hood, fourchette, perineum).
Accidental penetrating or impalement injuries that involve trauma to the hymen are relatively rare:
Of 161 accidental genital injuries reported in the literature, 3.7% involved the hymen.
[Child Abuse: Medical Diagnosis and Management, 4th ed. Antoinette Laskey and Andrew Sirotnak (eds.), p. 359]
However, they do occur and the resulting injuries can mimic those of sexual abuse. In such cases, it is important that the cause of the injury be confirmed.
Whether an acute or healed genital or anal injury is identified, it is incumbent on the medical professional to obtain a complete history of the nature of the injury. [...]
Key differences in the history of accidental trauma, such as a straddle injury, are that accidental injuries are more commonly observed by a third party, medical attention is sought immediately after the injury, a scene-of-injury visit confirms the plausibility of the injuries and the accompanying history, and the pattern of injury is consistent with the history.
[Child Abuse: Medical Diagnosis and Management, 4th ed. Antoinette Laskey and Andrew Sirotnak (eds.), p. 359]
If JonBenet's prior hymenal injury was the result of an accident or a past surgical procedure, it should be reflected in her medical records and easy to prove. An accidental penetrating injury that results in a complete laceration of the hymen is considered severe, one that would be painful and cause bleeding. It would be expected that most parents or caretakers would seek medical attention for their child's injury.
We know the Ramseys were not timid or frugal when it came to getting medical attention for JonBenet's injuries and ailments. We have records of her being seen by the doctor for various bumps, falls, and injuries, such as a bent fingernail from a fall, a bruised nose from faceplanting at a grocery store, a bump on the brow from a tripping fall, and a small cut to the cheek from a golf club swing. If JonBenet had sustained an accidental genital injury that resulted in a severe laceration, I find it very hard to believe she would not have been taken to the doctor for such an injury when she was taken for lesser injuries and ailments.
Clearly, there was nothing in her medical records that could account for such an injury or the Ramseys would have provided it to police.
 
(Continue to Part 2: The experts, responses to dissenting opinions and common myths, etc.)
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2020.09.26 05:20 Delicious_mod I fought the law and the law...

I woke up at 1800. 6PM. I can't have gone to bed later than midnight. How the fuck have I been passed out for 18 odd hours?

I called the cops on CA Girlfriend last night. The experience was less than pleasant.

After what I thought was her last booze run of the day I dared to think things might return to normal. We talked, albeit in a guarded fashion. Lot of mumbling and quiet, drawled, words. I invited her to bed for some cuddles, trying to provoke some proof of normality and she broke down. My dad this, my dad that, she sobs. I've heard it all before. I stroke her hair and try to soothe her. There there, it's ok, let's go back to normal.

Things seemed to be getting OK; she bought some paint when she went for her booze run and I get to to work covering up the orange smears she made on the wall and front door. "I would have done that...it's my fault" she mumbles, contritely. It's ok, I tell her, hoping I've scored some brownie points by not bringing up how psychotic she was in smearing shit all over the place.

We return to a kind of normalcy again where I'm playing on my laptop and she's watching tv. Either later today or tomorrow, I reckon, things will be back to normal.

She quietly asks if I can wash the dishes. This is one of my few chores that she normally bitches about it if I don't get on it ASAP; "the kitchen looks like a mess!", "I could find x, y, z, quicker if the sink wasn't full of dirty plates!" etc. but this time she quietly mumbles some purpose here. "I want to make us some soup". Cool, I'm up for that. Not especially hungry but it's easier to eat than anything else while I'm drinking. Shit eating grin while I eat her soup and things will go back to normal.

Then it starts.

She's outside smoking a cigarette for an unusually long time when I smell burning. Shit's stuck to the bottom of the pot I guess. She comes in and says "it smells like something burned, why weren't you watching that!?" I just say "oops, sorry", and not "if you cook something it's your responsibility to look after it."

She's playing around with her phone and starts screaming about Googlemaps; apparently our local Fry's is located in Brazil. "Why are you looking up Fry's anyway? What's going on?" I ask. "I need a new pan to cook the matzoh balls because the ones we have are shit!" she says, like I should have known that, and the fact that she's successfully cooked matzoh ball soup before isn't a thing. I die a little inside. Obviously looking for an excuse to leave the house and pick up more booze. I try to think of a reason to stop her, but I can't. Sure, love, Lyft will be here in 2 minutes.

I'm expecting her to be gone for a few hours when I get a call not 30 minutes after she's left. "Which pan should I buy? Fry's has an individual one for $40 or a whole set for $100!?" for fucks sake. We don't need more pans. We have all the kitchenware we need. I tell her to get whatever she wants and write off the next 2-4 hours as an opportunity to watch a movie, or have a good gaming sesh with some drinks.

30 minutes later I hear a loud banging at the door. I open it to find her stood there with a cooking set tucked under her arm. I can't even. She storms into the apartment "why haven't you reheated the soup? You knew I was coming!" grasp on reality, this is what we were arguing about. "Uhh, sorry, forgot" I mumble. "No, no, no that pot won't do. Here, use one of the ones I just bought". It's fucking soup, that you cooked earlier today. What the actual fuck.

I empty a whole container of the soup she cooked into one of her new pots when she abruptly gets up and walks out the door like she has a purpose. I follow her outside on the pretense of just wanting to smoke a cigarette. I want to suss out how wasted she is. She's on the phone to someone - "yeah, I just got home" - I pick up snatches of conversation - "sure babe, whenever, my address is [home]" - are you fucking kidding me, she's actually inviting one of her creepers to OUR home? Bite down, pay it no mind.

I go back in and wash a couple of a dishes when I notice something unusual - complete silence. I turn around; she's not on the couch. I can't hear her ranting outside, but maybe she's smoking a cigarette in silence. I open the front door and go outside to our porch and...it's empty. She's gone. She just fucked off without so much as a by-your-leave.

I think back to her earlier phone conversation. For fuck's sake, is she REALLY inviting someone over? I give it 5 minutes before I suit up and go charging down the street. There she is, bottom of the road. With "Dave", a "friend". Rage goes through the ceiling. "Fuck off" I say, "or I'll call the police. You want to take her, take her, but you're not coming on my fucking property". "Nigga what the fuck?" he says "I was her friend before you even knew her!" "You're not her friend!" I scream "you're an old pervert looking to score. Don't you dare pretend to be her friend!" Dude walks into the middle of the street and beckons me like I'm going to street fight him or something. Thirsty ass motherfucker actually took a bus across town because he knew she was drunk and thought he in with a chance. I just laugh. "Fuck you" I wave him off, "and fuck you for bringing him here" I say to her.

She's out of here tonight. I walk back with the intention of throwing her shit on the porch. Stupid crazy bitch. She comes back maybe 5 minutes later, saying I'm out of line and she can invite whoever she wants to her house. I don't have the time to point out how much she's living in crazy town. I tell her to get her stuff and leave, that I'm sick of her insanity.

I'm not sure if it's my words or the fact I'm putting her stuff on the porch that sets her off, but she hits me. I reflexively push her back and, due to the fact that she's wasted and has zero coordination, she trips over something and ends up on her back. Minor comedy moment: a 3/4th's empty pint of vodka flies out of her hoody as she falls down. I already knew she was fucking wasted, but it feels good to confirm she drank that much in such a short time. "You just broke my hip!" she squeals. I tell her she didn't break her hip and to stop being a drama queen. I try to pick her up off the ground and she starts wailing "don't touch me! You broke my hip!" For fucks sake, her hip isn't broken and I'm not in the mood for histrionics. I tell her to pick her ass up and go or I'm calling the cops. She says she needs an ambulance. I tell her if I call one the police will come too and that's not good for her. "Go ahead" she sneers "the police will be very interested when I tell them of how you just assaulted me."

Full of drunken bravado I take her up on the challenge and dial 911. I ask for an ambulance because she fell over after we had a physical altercation. Dispatch asks if I'm aware they have to send the police too, like I've just indicted myself or something. Sure, whatever, send the police, I say.

I go inside and leave her, sprawled amongst her things. When I go outside maybe 10 minutes later, she's gone. Or so it would seem at first glance. Her legs are sticking out from under the porch table, where she's crawled to faceplant, for some reason. "You're in so much trouble" she mumbles. I can't see her face, but it sounds like she's talking through a mouth full of concrete. "When I tell the police you pushed me over and broke my hip, you're going away for two and a half years." Whatever, I'm not really interested in her drunken threats. "You have mental health issues you need to work on", I say, "who the fuck lies about their own daughter being dead?" I can tell that catches her off guard because she stops ranting for a minute "No, no, she is dead! [Her ex] couldn't handle it so had another daughter with that name!" More bullshit.

The police don't show up until an hour and a half after I called. I walk over to talk to them and beckon them to my apartment when the cop makes a pinched face and waves his hand under his nose "whew, buddy, you been drinking?" yeah, no shit, but that ain't a crime you pint-sized twerp. I tell him I have and she has too. The police ask me a whole bunch of questions that I feel don't have anything to do with my story. "Who was this guy she tried to bring over?" "if she doesn't live here why is all her stuff here?" "how long have you two been together?" "can you demonstrate again what you did when she hit you?" "how much did you see her drink?" It felt like they were fishing for something.
It's an open and shut case; two drunk people have an argument, girl hits guy, guy reacts, girl falls over and hurts self. The fact that I'm fucking coherent, walking and talking, while she's semi-conscious and under a dinner table should tell you volumes about my story. The cop's a power tripping midget. Asks me for my date of birth and when I give it to him, without thinking, in the English dating convention he makes an exaggerated show of looking up from his notepad "you're aware there's only 12 months in the year, right?" "yeah, I was raised in England, I'm just used to saying my birthday like that. Comes out every now and then", "yeah well", he snaps his pen "you're in America now." Whatever. Despite the temptation, I'm not going to sass the little shit; I feel like that's what landed me in jail last time I had a scrape with the police. He says I'm not being arrested because they can't find probable cause and CAG isn't pressing charges. I try not to roll my eyes. Stupid fucks obviously thought I was the aggressor here. Ok, yessir, whatever you say. I just want them all the hell out of there.

I walk to the store for more booze when the circus has gone. Get back and enjoy me some drinkies when she calls a couple of hours later. I expect her to sound hateful, accusatory, instead she sounds oddly calm. Maybe they've pumped her full of meds. She said she left her debit card and wants me to read the numbers aloud to her, and she wants "Dave's" phone number. I can't see her phone and I'm not rooting through her stuff to find her debit card. What the hell is she going to buy online from the hospital anyway? I pretend it's a bad line and keep saying "I can't hear you...you're breaking up!" and she hangs up out of frustration.

3 missed calls from her and a voicemail saying she's sending a taxi driver over to get her phone and debit card.

What happens now? Well, more drink, of course. Long term...shit, I don't even want to think of that. All of her clothes and stuff are still here so she's not going to just sky out. Plus she has a few hundred dollars worth of furniture here. She said she's going to be in the hospital for 2 weeks. She'll love that. When she's had a drink she likes going to the hospital to be fawned over. Best case scenario, she sobers the fuck up and realizes what a cunt she's been. But she won't. This will all be my fault, of course. I'm tempted to use her debit card and withdraw rent money before she inevitably cancels it.
There's a house showing at fucking 9AM tomorrow and the place looks like a dump. I was kinda hoping she'd clean it with me. Balls.
Chairs, fellas.
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